I Met One of MJL’s Male Members in NYC

As I wrote in this blog, I visited New York City in the second week of January. Fortunately, it was a wonderful day: sunny and not too cold.

I made an appointment with one of our male members who lives in NYC. He had just returned from his vacation in Asia. I appreciate that he made time to meet with me.

He is looking for a wonderful woman, but he doesn’t specifically look for a Japanese woman. That’s fine. There are many men who are NOT looking for a woman in a specific ethnic group. Rather, these men are looking for a human being with special trait. For some men it doesn’t matter if their future wife is a Japanese woman, Chinese woman, Korean Woman, Filipino woman, Thai woman, or a woman from any other country. What matters is that she is something special for them.

I understand.

We are talking about having children: He wants to have children. Some male members who want to have children want to meet as younger women. I think age is important for those who want to have children. However, I have to tell you that most of our female members who are in their late thirties and early forties still want to have their own children. I understand their thoughts too since I had a child when I was 39 years old.

Anyway, the male client I met is open minded to meeting women who are in their late thirties to early forties. That’s fantastic!

Two of MJL’s female members who are planning to travel to New York City in February would like to meet with him, and we are now setting up meetings for him.


I hope everything will go well!

My 2014 New Year’s Resolution of going to NYC once a month to meet prospective members is working!!!


If you live in New York, New Jersey or other states and need a personalized matchmaker’s assistance, please let me know. I am happy to talk with you in person. If you are NOT in New York or New Jersey, we offer Skype consultation by appointment. Please let me know!

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Do you Plan to Visit Japan in 2014?

♥ Happy New Year 

We started our work at MJL this year on Monday, January 6^th, 2014.

As you may know, in Japan, New Year’s Day is like the Thanksgiving or Christmas holidays in the US. Many Japanese people take a long vacation, travel abroad, or spend time with their families.

Many Japanese people are shocked to learn that after the New Year’s Eve celebrations, life goes on as ordinary for most Americans.

Anyways, since now is the starting point of the year, you may have made some New Year’s resolutions.
Perhaps, one of your New Year’s Resolutions was…
“I will marry a Japanese woman this year!”

That’s great!

If so, you may have already planned to visit Japan this year.

As part of MJL’s membership program, all of our male members look forward to visiting Japan for their first meeting with our delightful female members. As our service becomes more popular, we had many male members visit our Tokyo office to have meetings with our female members last year. Especially, from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Eve we had a MEETINGS RUSH. We had many meetings every weekend.

In early December, one of our female members met a gentleman from SF in Tokyo. Their meeting was successful and right afterwards he invited her to visit SF. They visited our sister company’s office and invited one of their staff members to lunch.

They look so happy!

We look forward to hearing wonderful news soon!

Take Action for Positive Change!

Some of our male members say that they are not ready to visit Japan. If it has taken more than 3-6 months since you started communicating with our female member or members, it would be better to plan to visit Japan as soon as possible this year. Otherwise, our female members won’t believe that you are really sincere, and they are likely to move on to another man. Women who are over thirty five years old are especially serious about getting married now. They look for men who are serious and will not wait for men who do not take action for more than a year.

So, if your New Year’s Resolution is to marry a Japanese woman this year, here is our sage advice that will help you fulfill your dream. Decide to visit Japan this year and meet our lovely Japanese female member or members. If you truly want to marry a Japanese woman this year, it is truly possible, and the best way to make this dream a reality is to visit Japan. Meeting our female members face to face helps immensely with knowing whether she is the right person for you and vice versa.

Life is about going after opportunities when you can and not waiting for them to come to you! Your life awaits you here in Japan! Go for it today!

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FEEDBACK About Our: SPEED DATING Event in LA

As we announced on our blog in May, we had a SPEED DATING (or more appropriately called Speed Introduction) event in Los Angeles, California on Saturday, June 26th 2010. It was a smashing success!!! Twelve men (four were from SF and one was from Las Vegas) and twelve women (two were from JAPAN) participated. This was our biggest event ever!

Our event was held in a beautiful Japanese named, green certified hotel banquet room, the weather was sunny and, I received much positive feedback from our participants.

Some people asked me what is a SPEED DATING event. A SPEED DATING event is an event that allows the participants to meet many prospective people who are also interested in dating, in a short amount of time. At our event, each participant met twelve people of the opposite sex in a six minute mini date. Every six minutes, men switched to the next seat. The end result was that each participant met twelve prospective dates in a short amount of time (a few hours). After that, we had mingling time, so everyone could talk freely.

I think everyone has more satisfaction with this style of event than compared with taking part in a general party event. The reasons are as follows.
1. Since our female members are all serious minded, their purpose of participating in the event is clear. They are looking for a future husband.
2. If it is a general party event, Japanese women are too shy to talk.
3. If it is a general party, both men/women tend to want to talk with the popular people who are young looking and handsome/beautiful. Unfortunately, people tend not to talk to the average looking people or see people's personalities in a party setting.
4. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you can see our female profiles before the event takes place, and learn about the women who will be attending beforehand.
5. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you still have the opportunities to meet with people with whom you don't think you make a good match. This is healthy for everyone to meet many different types of people and allows for surprises. Who knows, you might meet a good match with someone who you were not interested based solely upon their profile.
6. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you do not have to feel any pressure or embarrassment about asking for a person's contact info, since MJL handles this for you. We have a convenient form for you to fill out where you list the people you would like to meet again, and MJL handles the introductions after the event.

It was our first experience with a speed dating event. We learned a lot, and we appreciate that our participants gave us wonderful feedback. We will improve and plan our next SPEED DATING or other events in TOKYO and NY.

I hope a lot of gentlemen who are looking for a Japanese wife will join our next MJL EVENT!


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The First Meet-up

My name is Chris, I'm 37 years old, and I have lived in Japan for three years. During my time in Japan I have had some pretty bad luck trying to find a wife, or even a girlfriend, here in Japan. I have met a lot of women through my work and through friends, but nothing has ever developed between myself and a new acquaintance . I have tried everything from multiple dating sites, going to singles parties, and I have spent a lot of time in bars and clubs. For multiple reasons I have just not been able to meet a woman who desires the same future as I do.

Recently while searching on the internet I had discovered a small, but growing company, Meet Japan Lady. So after reviewing their website and the information provided, I signed up as a trial member. One of their best selling points for myself was that they personally interviewed every member, to make sure that they were very serious about getting married. This really impressed me that their was a company that cared enough about their clients to screen out anyone who might not have the correct intentions and feelings. Then I received an email about joining the company on their Meetup.com group page, which was announcing that they were having a meeting of clients who lived in Japan at their Tokyo office. So I sent in my RSVP, and on January 23rd, I headed to Tokyo for my first meeting with other Meet Japan Lady clients.

So I traveled for over 2 hours by train to Tokyo, before arriving at the meeting location. Since the meeting was scheduled a couple of weeks prior to Valentines Day, I had gotten up early, and made Valentines gifts of individual boxes of chocolate with flowers tied to them with silk ribbons. I had made about 20 of them, which was perfect because in the end there were almost as many people who showed up. I was the first member to arrive and for about 5 minutes I was by myself. The room was small and the white painted walls were pretty bare, except for a couple of posters and a clock. Down the center of the room there were some tables with names taped in front of the seats, one table off to the side, a white board, and a small office sofa. I took this time to lay out a box of chocolate in front of each seat and put the extras on the side table. As I finished, three female members walked in, and we started to introduce ourselves.

Slowly people started to arrive, carrying with them different snacks and drinks to share with everyone. Naoko arrived with her husband and some more members, as she said some quick greetings to some of the members. She asked everyone to please feel free to help themselves to the food and drinks everyone had brought, including some refreshments she had supplied. Everyone put together plates of snack foods and poured themselves some refreshments. Once everyone was settled in their chairs, Naoko started the meeting.

Naoko introduced herself, her husband Roland, Mr. Miyata (who runs the Tokyo office), and gave a brief introduction of her company and the services they supply. Her husband Roland then introduced himself, how he and Naoko had met, and shared some of their life after marriage (including a new baby). After Roland had finished, some questions were asked, and then all of the members started to introduce themselves. Each member shared their basic information, their current situation, what they were looking for in a potential spouse, and the future they would like to share with their new spouse. As each member finished, Naoko would always ask if anyone had any questions. Other members always asked questions, including Naoko. This continued until every member had a chance to share themselves with the group, then questions were asked and answered. There were even a couple of members who were actually well into the processes of meeting their potential spouse, and were very helpful by sharing their personal experiences with the services provided. Naoko then finished the meeting off with some more helpful information to help each member. After she was done sharing her useful information, the meeting was finished. So everyone helped to clean up, and then we were given the chance to mingle for a little while. Then, slowly people started to leave.

I attended this meeting as a trial member and I didn't know what to expect. I was pretty nervous because of my track record with meeting women here in Japan. I was also nervous about what others would think and say about my feelings towards my own personal experiences and my thoughts on the cultural differences. And, when I first walked into the small meeting room, I thought it wasn't quite the right setting for people to be sharing such personal feelings and dreams. But all of those first impressions and my personal feelings had changed by the end of the meeting.

They had been changed because of many reasons but most of all from the way the company is run by Naoko. From the very beginning you could tell she really cared about every member, and she really is concerned that members meet a spouse that will be able to take care of them and truly love them. To call this a company makes it sounds like it might be another cold and unfeeling marriage arrangement company, but it is not. It's very comforting that when you have questions and concerns, she is always there to help and answer questions. Since she personally interviews the members, you can rest assured that you are only going to be introduced to like minded women. This is not a dating service, where members are looking for just casual relationships or just rich husbands. The personal touches that her service provides, I have found to be unmatched by other agencies and dating sites.

I had traveled a long way and spent a lot of money on gifts for people I didn't even know, but I would do it all over again if it meant I would have the same experiences as I did with this first meeting. I found the meeting to be very helpful and encouraging. I learned a lot from the other members, including what to expect from a Japanese wife, their expectations from a foreign husband, and many other cultural differences. And during the meeting I could see the other members were just as nervous as I was, but everyone was so kind and caring towards each other, that by the end of the meeting everyone, had a very good, positive, and rewarding experience. Everyone walked out with a smile on their face and the assurance that we are in good hands with Naoko and her services. I honestly can't wait until there is another meeting and I'm very grateful to have found this company.

Meet Japan Lady.com
Personalized Marriage Introduction Service for Professional American Men

http://meetjapanlady.com/

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