April 04, 2014

Matthew and Naomi




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March 08, 2014

Opportunity to Meet with Naoko in NYC: Project 2014


Naoko is now traveling to NYC once a month to meet with potential clients. This is my new project in 2014. I would like to meet many single professionals and Japanese women in NYC to help them in finding their lifelong partners. >>>Click to read



Naoko Matsumoto: CEO and Your Personal Matchmaker


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February 17, 2014

Japan to finally be Compliant with Hague Convention on Child Abduction in April 2014

One of my friends in Wisconsin shared this story about his friend, John. John was married to a Japanese woman and they had a child. They appeared to be a happy family. One day, John’s wife travelled to Japan with their child, and they never returned to the US. >>>Click to read

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February 08, 2014

When the First Meeting Goes Awry


One of our female members visited a man in Los Angeles who was introduced to her by a friend of hers. (He is NOT one of our male members.)

After staying at his house for a few days, she was told by him,

“The toilet paper is running out faster after you came to my house.”

“Besides,” he continued,

“There is the Washlet (TOTO), so you do not need to use much toilet paper.”And he continued to lecture her.



She didn’t like him to complain. And, she understood that it is more important for him that she lives frugally with him than creating a positive relationship with her. 

No matter how much toilet paper she used, she didn’t want him to say anything about it since it hurt her feelings.

She shared her story with us after returning from her trip.

“Since I was concerned about his happiness, but I bought an ample amount of consumable supplies, such as toilet paper and toothpaste, and gave them to him before leaving his house.”

Some people would have seen this seemingly unhappy incident as something to be avoided. However, our female member realized that the toilet paper was simply an expression of their incompatibility. Therefore, she had no reason to blame him for what he said to her. So, this experience was fortunate since she was able to realize that they were incompatible before deciding to get married.

Even though he told her, “I like you!”

She honestly realized that he did not care for her.

As a result of this experience, she said good bye to him and moved on to start finding a better relationship.

She met a new gentleman through MJL’s service last December, and she said they are getting along well. He cares for her very much and she feels happy.


I am looking forward to hearing great news from them soon!




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January 23, 2014

We Are Engaged –MJL’s First Happy Couple in 2014!




We received a wonderful message from one of our male members in Los Angeles. “We Are Engaged!”


We responded with, “Congratulations to you both!”


He visited Japan last fall in order to meet some of our female members. And he decided to choose one of these females as his wife.

I remember when he became our member during an interview with me, he said that he has a goal oriented personality, and that he has accomplished many big tasks in life with dedicated concentration.

He sounded very confident.

So, I felt that it would be very easy for him to find a wife.

The way it works is that if you really want to marry, and you are completely dedicated with all of your energy on meeting someone to marry, it will happen. And, I saw his complete dedication in him when I first talked with him on Skype.

If you have complete dedication to finding a wife, women will feel that you are sincere, and they will feel comfortable with you and trust you. If you take initiative, it is easy for women to believe in you.


He made a decision to visit Japan within 6 months since he became a Full Member. At his first meeting he met some of our female members whom he had chosen. His dedication to finding a wife was successful for him and happened rather quickly since he had a goal oriented mind. It all worked out wonderfully for him!


We are happy for him and his fiancé!

Their engagement is MJL’s first one in 2014. We look forward to hearing from more of our clients who decide to get engaged this year! Let 2014 be the year to make it happen!!!




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January 20, 2014

I Met One of MJL’s Male Members in NYC




As I wrote in this blog, I visited New York City in the second week of January. Fortunately, it was a wonderful day: sunny and not too cold.



I made an appointment with one of our male members who lives in NYC. He had just returned from his vacation in Asia. I appreciate that he made time to meet with me.

He is looking for a wonderful woman, but he doesn’t specifically look for a Japanese woman. That’s fine. There are many men who are NOT looking for a woman in a specific ethnic group. Rather, these men are looking for a human being with special trait. For some men it doesn’t matter if their future wife is a Japanese woman, Chinese woman, Korean Woman, Filipino woman, Thai woman, or a woman from any other country. What matters is that she is something special for them.

I understand.

We are talking about having children: He wants to have children. Some male members who want to have children want to meet as younger women. I think age is important for those who want to have children. However, I have to tell you that most of our female members who are in their late thirties and early forties still want to have their own children. I understand their thoughts too since I had a child when I was 39 years old.

Anyway, the male client I met is open minded to meeting women who are in their late thirties to early forties. That’s fantastic!

Two of MJL’s female members who are planning to travel to New York City in February would like to meet with him, and we are now setting up meetings for him.


I hope everything will go well!



My 2014 New Year’s Resolution of going to NYC once a month to meet prospective members is working!!!


If you live in New York, New Jersey or other states and need a personalized matchmaker’s assistance, please let me know. I am happy to talk with you in person. If you are NOT in New York or New Jersey, we offer Skype consultation by appointment. Please let me know!



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January 19, 2014

My Journey to New York City in 2014




I decided to go to New York once a month in 2014.
Why?

I am looking for single professionals!!!

Of course, not for me
J since I have a wonderful husband!!!

I am looking for gentlemen who want to meet Japanese women for lifelong partnerships.



I have been brainstorming for how I can create more and more opportunities for gentlemen and Japanese women to meet in a safe and sincere atmosphere. MJL has many new female clients as members who want true love and happy marriages.


And then, I realized that taking action is more important than thinking in my mind. Right now, I do not have many connections, but if I keep going to New York, I am sure I will be able to meet single men and women who need my help.

I am very motivated to find a solution through positive action.

New York City is one of the biggest cities in the world, and I believe that there are many single professionals who do not have time to think about marriage but do not want to keep being single. Also, I believe that there are many single Japanese women who would like to meet their future husbands.

How can I meet them?

I am happy to help them and try to cut a road through a forest. I believe that it is one of my life missions.


Maybe, we can have speed dating events for our members in NYC or members from other states in the US. It is possible.


I have never thought of it although I have lived in Baltimore for more than 7 years. It takes just about 3 hours to arrive in NYC from Baltimore.

So, why not try?


Let’s go for it!

Then I purchased a ticket to New York City.


Visiting New York once a month: This is one of my New Year Resolutions.


If I keep visiting NYC for a year, I bet that I might find something interesting there. Therefore, I just try! Without too much expectation, I just do.

I will keep you informed in this blog!
Till next time!


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January 07, 2014

Do you Plan to Visit Japan in 2014?


♥ Happy New Year 




We started our work at MJL this year on Monday, January 6th, 2014.

As you may know, in Japan, New Year’s Day is like the Thanksgiving or Christmas holidays in the US. Many Japanese people take a long vacation, travel abroad, or spend time with their families.

Many Japanese people are shocked to learn that after the New Year’s Eve celebrations, life goes on as ordinary for most Americans.

Anyways, since now is the starting point of the year, you may have made some New Year’s resolutions.
Perhaps, one of your New Year’s Resolutions was…
“I will marry a Japanese woman this year!”
That’s great!

If so, you may have already planned to visit Japan this year.

As part of MJL’s membership program, all of our male members look forward to visiting Japan for their first meeting with our delightful female members. As our service becomes more popular, we had many male members visit our Tokyo office to have meetings with our female members last year. Especially, from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Eve we had a MEETINGS RUSH. We had many meetings every weekend.

In early December, one of our female members met a gentleman from SF in Tokyo. Their meeting was successful and right afterwards he invited her to visit SF. They visited our sister company’s office and invited one of their staff members to lunch.

They look so happy!




We look forward to hearing wonderful news soon!

Take Action for Positive Change!

Some of our male members say that they are not ready to visit Japan. If it has taken more than 3-6 months since you started communicating with our female member or members, it would be better to plan to visit Japan as soon as possible this year. Otherwise, our female members won’t believe that you are really sincere, and they are likely to move on to another man. Women who are over thirty five years old are especially serious about getting married now. They look for men who are serious and will not wait for men who do not take action for more than a year.


So, if your New Year’s Resolution is to marry a Japanese woman this year, here is our sage advice that will help you fulfill your dream. Decide to visit Japan this year and meet our lovely Japanese female member or members. If you truly want to marry a Japanese woman this year, it is truly possible, and the best way to make this dream a reality is to visit Japan. Meeting our female members face to face helps immensely with knowing whether she is the right person for you and vice versa.

Life is about going after opportunities when you can and not waiting for them to come to you! Your life awaits you here in Japan! Go for it today!



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December 23, 2013

MJL’s Speed Dating Event in Singapore on Dec 7th and 8th: Successfully Completed with Total Number of 92 Attendees on Both Days!


















Our first Speed Dating Event in Singapore was held on Dec 7th and 8th. The first day, we had about 50 attendees. Men and women sat face to face and talked to each other for 5 minutes and then switched to the next seat after that. 5 minutes sessions with 25 people equals more than 120 total minutes where all attendees were talking. It was a bit hard but it was fun!








There were some break times for snacks and mingle time. They exchanged their business cards freely and we were told that some of the attendees started corresponding individually.


















The second day, we had a lunch meeting at One on the Bay, a Chinese restaurant which is located on the other shore of the Marina Bay Sands.



















Most of the attendees live in Singapore; some are from Japan, Philippines, Bangkok, Vietnam, and Jakarta. We had some inquiries about the event from China, Korea, and other Asian countries.

A journalist from
KYODO NEWS came and collected materials as it was the first speed dating in Singapore in the Japanese society.
KYODO NEWS
http://english.kyodonews.jp/


We had a wonderful experience in Singapore. We will have events in Japan and Los Angeles. We invite you to join us!


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December 04, 2013

We are Engaged!


One of our female members recently wrote to us.

"♥ We are ENGAGED "

We replied, 

♥ CONGRATULATIONS




※This picture is not related to our members.





I remember that it was early June when she enrolled in our Trial Membership.


She and Luna, our Matchmaker kept talking.
And, she chose some candidates and started as a Full Member in early July.


A male client started communicating with her and visited her in Japan in the middle of September, and she decided to visit him after that.


Things went smoothly for them. They had been thinking deeply about each other and they built up their committed relationship with sincere affections.


It has been 5 months since they start communicating by email and Skype when they decided to get married. This was a fairly short time in our members’ records.

They will try to obtain a fiancé visa for her. This will take more than 6 months to one year to obtain which is an incredibly LONG TIME, but it is normal. 

If you would like to start searching for a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, you can learn from this example as to how long the process takes and figure out what to do right now.


If you have already decided “I am going to be married in 2014”, please take action now!




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November 20, 2013

Matchmaking Event in Singapore on Dec 7th and 8th




















We will have a Matchmaking Event on Dec 7th and 8th in Singapore.
Sat. Dec. 7th – Speed Dating Event in the evening
Sun. Dec. 8th – Lunch Meeting

Tickets for the Dec 7th are all sold out, but there are one or two tickets left for 8th.
Over 50 people will attend Dec 7th’s Event.
Most attendees are Japanese men who live in Singapore. Some Japanese women are visiting Singapore in order to join this event.

If you are interested in attending this event, please let us know ASAP.
We will close the list very soon.



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November 19, 2013

Find an Honest Japanese Woman




















Our family drives to Pennsylvania about every three weeks in order to get fresh spring water. It 
is about a 40 minutes’ drive from Baltimore, and it is great to breathe fresh air and feel peace in rural Pennsylvania.


The owner of the spring provides spring water for free, so many people in the area make special regular trips to fill their water bottles and enjoy the fresh water. The owner also sometimes sells fresh eggs produced by their own chickens.


Yesterday, when we were filling water in our sixteen bottles, a woman rushed in to get a dozen 
eggs. There are no people to collect money for the egg sales, but there is a payment box to 
make a payment. She placed some money into the box and left. I felt happy because she was 
honest.


We have the same system in the countryside in Japan. Farmers sell produce along the street 
without anyone collecting money; there are simply collection boxes. I believe that there is a 
mutual trust between farmers and customers, and it works well, and I am grateful to know that 
there are many honest people on earth.


I found an interesting topic: Honest Tea tests the honesty of the citizens in many cities in the US by placing unmanned kiosks 






Please read this article to see the results:


The top 5 results for the percentage of citizens who are honest for 2013:

Oakland, CA 100%
Salt Lake City 100%
Boulder, CO 99%
San Francisco, CA 97%
Seaside Heights, NJ 97%










Reference:
The National Honest Index
http://thenationalhonestyindex.com/


Basically, I believe that all people are honest. Especially, when I meet someone in person, I talk 
honestly and I try to feel his or her honesty. 


If you are honest, honest people will come to you. That’s what I believe. If you would like to meet 
an honest Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, being honest is the key. 



















By the way, my name Naoko means “Honest Child”. My grandfather gave me this wonderful 
name. In order to appreciate my grandfather’s love and respect him, I have tried to be honest to 
everyone my whole life.


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November 18, 2013

Lunch Meeting with Luna and Steve on Nov 23rd in Shinjuku


We will have a small Lunch Meeting Event on Nov 23rd in Shinjuku

Our Special Hosts Visiting from the USA: LUNA and STEVE
Event Fee: 3,000 JPY
Who Can Attend: MJL VIP Clients

A select group of our female members who live in the Tokyo area will attend. 

We hope you enjoy this great opportunity to meet our female members in person!

Please contact us ASAP.



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November 02, 2013

How to Best Prepare for Her Visit to Your Home


Long time ago, one of our female members visited the man whom she was corresponding with in the US and stay there for three weeks to make sure if she felt comfortable living there.

Since he has a job, she was supposed to be in his house alone until he came back. However, there was no internet access. He went to Starbucks when he needed to go online. There was no car for her, she had no friends there. She was like a bird in a cage for more than two weeks. She completed reading the books she brought with her from Japan. She had nothing to do for most of the day and was there alone. Finally, she gave up staying there and went back to Tokyo. Needless to say, she and he broke up after that. I do not want to blame him, but there must have been a better way for him to welcome her to the US and show her that he really wanted her to stay with him and that he really wanted to marry her.

Before she visits you, it would be nice to prepare for her to make her feel welcome and happy. The best way to do this is to at least provide the following things for her:

1)    Fast Internet access.

2)    Area map with your location and how to use the public transportation to the downtown.

3)    Local information about shops, libraries, cafés, and restaurants.

4)    Information about Japanese community if there is any Japanese community near your town.

5)    Locations of rental car companies or Zipcar. She can drive if she has an international driver’s license.


The purpose of her visiting you is to for her to see if she feels comfortable staying with you. If you pass this test, then your relationship will move on to the next stage. So it is most important for you to prepare to make her happy.


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October 27, 2013

Japanese Women Want to Experience Nature





My son and I went to an apple picking picnic as an outdoor activity for his Japanese class.

We drove for 30 minutes from downtown Baltimore and saw peaceful farm landscapes all around us. Since I had lived in central Tokyo, seeing the countryside is a great experience for me.

If your Japanese girlfriend says, “I enjoy a relaxing lifestyle,” you and she may feel happy to live here together. However, most Japanese women may feel a culture shock upon arriving in the US since living in Japan is extremely developed, super convenient with buildings and stores everywhere, and most people live in cities in Japan.

As a matchmaker, I always tell our female members not to expect the same lifestyle that they have now in Tokyo. I tell them to be openminded about their new upcoming life in America and to be ready to create a new sense of value.

If Japanese women have flexibility and can enjoy the differences between the American lifestyle and the Japanese lifestyle, their life is going to be abundant.

If your Japanese girlfriend has not yet experienced wild nature which urban cities don’t have, it would be nice for you and her to explore the outdoors together.


My son and I enjoyed a wonderful Fall day at the apple farm in rural Maryland where we felt the warm sunshine and saw the pastoral scenes.



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October 15, 2013

Online Dating, Do I Choose Quantity or Quality?











Many people who get used to using online dating services probably think meeting someone online is easy. They might think if they lose interest in one person after chatting or a short communication, it is easy to seek someone new. Many people believe the saying of “Even a poor shot will hit the mark (eventually) if he tries often enough.” However, can a person really find someone special by meeting many people?

There is a Japanese traditional saying “Ichi Go Ichi E”. Here is the link: http://bit.ly/XKUY9 . “Ichi Go Ichi E” is Zen Word which means, “Value the person you meet in this moment, for he or she is certainly intended for you”.

As a matchmaker, I always tell our members to take the time to see your match deeply. Find out his or her inner beauty. Think about why you chose her, or why you are chosen by her. Think about “Ichi Go Ichi E”. Meeting someone on this planet at this moment is an amazing opportunity and is a miracle since you and she were selected to be a couple from the billions of people on the planet.

I definitely want all of our members to think more about Quality instead of Quantity. When you focus on creating a Quality Life with someone special, you will achieve your goal of a happy marriage.

All of our members who got happily married were following the “Ichi Go Ichi E” method. 



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September 24, 2013

Does Your Message Make Her Happy?


Our male members and female members often have language difficulties when communicating. However, if you have great patience and adopt an attitude of learning about the message sender, language issues become less of a problem.






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September 16, 2013

“The Rules” – Some Japanese Women Love






Have you heard about “The Rules”? Or have you read it before? It is a book written by Ellen Fein, and it is a book for women who want to find the right man.


Introducing some rules in “The Rules” book……

Rule #4: 
Don’t Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date.

Rule #12: 
Stop Dating Him if He Doesn’t Buy You a Romantic Gift for Your Birthday or Valentine’s Day.

Rule #15: Don’t Rush into Sex and Other Rules for Intimacy

Rule #17: Let Him Take The Lead

Rule #34: Love Only Those Who Love You

The first 20 chapters are mostly about how to let him take the initiative first. So a woman who follows “The Rules” may keep herself cool even though she really likes you. Accordingly, she is supposed to be patient and pay attention to how much you are caring about her. The book states to its readers, who are mostly women, that if they follow the guidelines laid out in “The Rules”, your marriage will last forever with happiness.

Actually, I did not read this book before getting married, so I may not have been a “Rules Girls”. However, I have recently read this book and learned much about creating successful dating and marriage. I agree with many parts of “The Rules”.

Most Japanese women expect men to take the initiative, and yet many men tend to be very busy and often don’t think about how to entertain their dates. If you have never succeeded in your dating, reading “The Rules” book may help you in learning what women expect.

Since the series of “The Rules” were translated into the Japanese language, there are many Japanese women who are crazy about “The Rules.” If so, it is very likely that your candidates might be a follower of this book and is checking how you treat her.

If your goal is “Marriage”, learning women’s underlying psychology is the key to success.



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