Which Hairstyle Do You Find More Attractive, with Bangs or Full Length?

 Here are the pictures of a young Japanese singer who updated her blog and talked about her hairstyle. She just had a haircut. She really liked her new hairstyle since she hasn’t had bangs in a long time. You can see her former hairstyle at the upper left side. When comparing her two before and after pictures, you may feel that she looks younger with short brown hair with bangs than with long black hair without bangs.
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If You Are Over 50 and Want to Meet Younger Japanese Women …..

Have you ever thought about the age gap?

As everyone knows, we only accept male and female clients who are looking for a marriage partner as a member. That means that our members’ purpose for joining is “Marriage”. Most Japanese women are looking for men who are in the same age group as they are. In most Asian countries...

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We are Engaged!

One of our female members recently wrote to us.

"♥ We are ENGAGED ♥"

We replied, 

“♥ CONGRATULATIONS♥ ”

※This picture is not related to our members.

I remember that it was early June when she enrolled in our Trial Membership.


She and Luna, our Matchmaker kept talking.
And, she chose some candidates and started as a Full Member in early July.


A male client started communicating with her and visited her in Japan in the middle of September, and she decided to visit him after that.


Things went smoothly for them. They had been thinking deeply about each other and they built up their committed relationship with sincere affections.


It has been 5 months since they start communicating by email and Skype when they decided to get married. This was a fairly short time in our members’ records.

They will try to obtain a fiancé visa for her. This will take more than 6 months to one year to obtain which is an incredibly LONG TIME, but it is normal. 

If you would like to start searching for a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, you can learn from this example as to how long the process takes and figure out what to do right now.


If you have already decided “I am going to be married in 2014”, please take action now!

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Japanese Women Want to Experience Nature

My son and I went to an apple picking picnic as an outdoor activity for his Japanese class.

We drove for 30 minutes from downtown Baltimore and saw peaceful farm landscapes all around us. Since I had lived in central Tokyo, seeing the countryside is a great experience for me.

If your Japanese girlfriend says, “I enjoy a relaxing lifestyle,” you and she may feel happy to live here together. However, most Japanese women may feel a culture shock upon arriving in the US since living in Japan is extremely developed, super convenient with buildings and stores everywhere, and most people live in cities in Japan.

As a matchmaker, I always tell our female members not to expect the same lifestyle that they have now in Tokyo. I tell them to be openminded about their new upcoming life in America and to be ready to create a new sense of value.

If Japanese women have flexibility and can enjoy the differences between the American lifestyle and the Japanese lifestyle, their life is going to be abundant.

If your Japanese girlfriend has not yet experienced wild nature which urban cities don’t have, it would be nice for you and her to explore the outdoors together.

My son and I enjoyed a wonderful Fall day at the apple farm in rural Maryland where we felt the warm sunshine and saw the pastoral scenes.

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Open Yourself to The Universe, and Good Things Will Happen - To Be Chosen or To Choose

One of our male members visited one of our female members last week. To make a long story short, they met at our office, got along together, and they decided to step up to an exclusive relationship which means that they changed their membership status “PINK HEART”. 

Actually, it was the second time that he became our Full Member. Once before he gave up and cancelled our Full Membership and decided to find his love by himself.  However, he didn't find a good chemistry with anyone he met. So, he returned to PJM and became our Full Member again last year. At that time, he told me, “Naoko san, I will not choose any women, but I will accept any women if they choose me.” I thought it was a great idea, and we followed his relationships’ activities. As he had previously stated, he didn’t make any contact requests, and he received some contact requests from our female members. He decided to communicate with one woman with special interest.

Finally, he came to our Tokyo Office to meet with her in person last month. It was the best time for their first meeting since the cherry blossoms were in full bloom. The utter beauty of the cherry blossoms lent a romantic atmosphere to their surroundings!

After their first meeting they said that they felt a strong chemistry between them and they decided to go to the next step to create a deeper relationship.

That's FANTASTIC!

There are many men and women who try to meet as many candidates as possible. As a result of that they cannot choose one, or they believe there must be more and more beautiful women for them but it usually doesn’t work out that way.

I think the reason he succeeded in finding his ideal woman at this time is because he didn’t choose her, rather he accepted the woman who selected him. It might be called “SURRENDER”, and god selected the best one for him.

If you have spent a long time in “CHOOSING ONE”, stop it and just “SURRENDER”! God in your universe will select the right person for you! You can help the process by envisioning the type of person you want to be with.

If you are a full member and struggle to meet the right partner, please feel free to make an appointment with Naoko or Luna to discuss your match. Talking with you, creating your solution, and making you and your Japanese partner happy is our mission!

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Would You Really Like to Get Married or Are You Looking for Just a Girlfriend?

This is an important message to men who have been communicating with one woman for three months or longer. We highly recommend that you meet her in Japan. It really helps you and her to get to know each other more completely, and it will help you both to decide if you want to take your relationship to the next level with either a commitment or a decline. A decline would allow you to start with a new candidate.

Some male members take time to make this kind of decision, and it is rather common for men to hold onto a digital relationship for years with no visit Japan. As a result of that, many female members are struggling since Japanese women tend to wait for men’s decision first. They believe that showing their loyalty is most important in creating great relationships.  

Too often, I have seen many men just keep women as friends, only chitchatting with them when they have free time. Some men may want to enjoy being single, and they just take advantage of women by being with them whenever they need girlfriends. I understand that making a decision may be difficult, and men do not tend to marry in a short amount of time.


However, we are not a dating service, so we strictly state that male members must take action to visit Japan after spending at least three months communicating with her by email or on skype. Also, we recommend that our male members visit Japan within at least six months of the initial introduction to meet her in person.

Do you think our policy is too strict?


Actually, time is important for women as they have an age limit for having children and their beauty, which most men desire, will not last forever.

We recommend to our female members that if the man whom she is corresponding with does not take action, show his love, or make plans to visit her in Japan in three months since they start communicating, it would be best to consider moving on from him and looking for new prospects.


We feel that our policy makes sense, since we are NOT a dating site; rather we are a marriage introduction agency. And as such, we provide a Goal Oriented Service for all members who are looking for a Happy Marriage.

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Japanese Women Who Chose International Marriage: Kumiko Goto

Do you know Kumiko Goto?

She is a Japanese former singer, actress, model. She used to be a symbol of  Japanese Beautiful Girls(国民的美少女). She abandoned her artistic career in 1995 when she married the French racing driver Jean Alesi. They livein

Please check her photos. She is really Japanese Beauty!!!

Kumiko Goto:  http://bit.ly/XIVXrQ
Jean Alesi:  http://bit.ly/WnAlk2

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Japanese Women vs Chinese Women

Japanese Women vs Chinese Women

http://www.chinasmack.com/2010/stories/japanese-vs-chinese-women-comparison.html

This is an interesting article!

 

The author of this article is prberbly Chinese,  so I disagree #3 as a Japanese woman’s ppoint of view.

Japanese women usually believe marrying foreigners is a kind of disgrace.

Chinese women usually feel that marrying foreigners is a kind of infinite glory.

 

But to totally I agree #8!!!

Most young Japanese girls will find a man who is around their age to marry, and make a life with him together.

Young Chinese girls always find a wealthy “old” man, and don’t mind even being his Nth mistress/wife.

 

What do you think?

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How to Send a Gift to a Japanese Woman in Japan

I talked with one of our female members recently, and she said that she received a special gift from a man whom she is corresponding with now.

 

I asked her how he sent her his gift. And this is the company he sent his gift from.
http://www.worldflower.net/shop/index.php?site=w2

World Flower Service

 

This company is located in Tokyo, so you do not have to worry about the shipment fee. Also, they shows who grew their gift flowers. They said that they take care of their flowers with heart. Sounds great!
http://www.worldflower.net/shop/page/farm_all?site=w1

Valentine's Day is coming soon, and sending a gift would be a wonderful idea if you have been corresponding with someone to show how much you think about and care for her.

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Living in a Gun Society – A Message from One of MJL's Members.

Last week I wrote about “Living in a Gun Society” in my blog, and we received a message from one of our male members. With his permission, we would like to share his response on my blog. Please keep in mind that this is one person’s opinion and there are many other viewpoints in the US. Still, “Living in a Gun Society” is “Living in a Whole New World” for Japanese women. We at MJL are neutral on this issue and are merely trying to inform our members about this issue. If guns are important to you, we highly recommend that you and your future wife talk about this topic before starting a committed relationship.

Hi Naoko,

I read your post:

http://meetamericanmen.blogspot.com/2013/01/living-in-gun-society.html

Some parts of this are true.  Guns are legal and widely owned in America.  About half the households in America have guns.  Anyone who is a business owner (like me) in the US probably owns and carries a gun.

A few things are not right in your post though:

We all know about the tragic news in the US of the innocent people killed by a person with many guns...  Many children die every year from accidental gun shootings.

That's not true.  90% of people shot in the US are not innocent.  Most are gang members shot by other gang members.  There are very few accidents or murders committed professional white or Asian people in the US.  Most of the children who die in accidental shootings are living with poor drug addicts or gang members who also have guns.

Many successful, professional men and women here get a permit and carry a gun as normally as you carry a cellphone.

And she felt scared to live with a man with guns. I would feel the same way.

Whether her husband owns a gun or not, she's going to live in a country where criminals own guns.  She should be more scared of these criminals than of her husband.

This happened yesterday:

http://www.wral.com/two-detained-after-raleigh-home-invasion-shooting/11948545/

Can you imagine that?  This is why I own a gun and I want my wife to know how to use a gun too.  The police can't stop crimes like that.  I wish that man had a gun.

Riots near my house, in Los Angeles, in 1992, Koreans use guns to defend themselves:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmsKGhLdZuQ&feature=player_detailpage#t=71s

America is a chaotic place with a lot of poor people and racial tension and heavily armed gangs, and the situation is getting worse, not better.  Gun control is not going to take guns away from those gangs, just like drug laws are not taking drugs away from them.  Parts of America resemble third world countries.  I live in beautiful and safe Beverly Hills, but I can drive half an hour away and I'm in a violent third world country that looks like Mexico or Haiti.

Japan has the lowest crime rate in the world.  America has the highest crime rate in the industrialized world.  Japanese women coming to the US need to adapt to a few things:

1.   They will need to learn how to drive.  Yes, they may have a driver’s license in Japan but they don't know how to drive.  Learning to drive is stressful and takes a few years.

2.   They will be coming to a society that's more violent than Japan, and they will need to be ready for that.  That may include having and carrying guns.

I can't think of my wife being assaulted or raped so I want her to be able to protect herself.  I expect her to be ok with me owning and carrying a gun, and ideally she should get training for herself.

This is definitely something Japanese women should ask about before they come here.  They are coming to a different world.

Could you post my response onto your blog post, to give an American perspective?

Thanks,

E  Los Angeles

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Living in a Gun Society

Many of our male members visited our Tokyo office to meet our female members at the end of the year in Dec. to New Year’s Eve.　It was our busiest month of all year.

One of our male members talked with Miyata about the gun which he keeps in his house.
He said if he finds a partner, she needs to practice shooting to protect herself.

We all know about the tragic news in the US of the innocent people killed by a person with many guns. Some people say that they need more guns to protect themselves, and other people say that guns need to be controlled.

As you can see, this issue is controversial and it will take time to come to an agreement.

Anyway, as a Japanese native it is hard to imagine that ordinary people in the US can easily own guns. And we have heard from one of our female members who visited her date in the US and he showed her his guns. And she felt scared to live with a man with guns. I would feel the same way.

I am not arguing for or against gun ownership in the US at this time. However, I think that it is necessary for American men to share with their Japanese wives about gun ownership responsibilities and how you feel about guns. Japanese women don’t even know that owning guns is legal in the US.

Perhaps more importantly, all guns in the home should be locked up securely. This is especially important when there are children in the house. Many children die every year from accidental gun shootings.

Your Japanese wife to be should be informed if you have guns, and she should understand your thoughts of having guns. Also wife and husband should talk about possible dangers in daily life and how to protect themselves.

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Japanese Women Experiences True Love for First Time

In early June, one of our male clients spent 2 wonderful weeks visiting one of our female clients in Japan. He just returned home to the east coast of the US.

Miyata at our office reported as follows.

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Mr. M from Rhode Island just returned to the US.
Miss N gave me a call and said that she had a happy time with him.

She said that she had never ever experienced being treated so wonderfully.

He was so kind and gentle.
She felt his love for her, and she loves him too.

She would like to take time off from work to visit him in the US as soon as possible.

There is a direct flight between Boston and Narita, Japan.

So, she is planning her trip to the US right now.

Miyata@ TokyoOffice
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I am happy to hear that they had a wonderful time together in Japan.

The phrase,

“She experienced the most love ever in her life”,

is so impressive to me.

The key to their success is that he visited Japan to meet with only her.
Some men think it’s better to meet with more than one woman. However, from my matchmaking experience, meeting with only one female client works best for bringing their relationship level toward the next stage.

We haven't received his feedback yet, however, we are sure his feedback will be super positive with happy comments!

I am happy for their new found love!

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Japanese Women Should Stand up and Say “NO” If It Is NOT Correct

Here is the “Oppai Pudding” which is the pudding shaped like a woman’s breast. “Oppai Pudding” is sold in Japan as a gift. You can buy everywhere in Japan at the gift shop in a major train station since they have many different version such as Oppai Pudding Tokyo, Yokohama, Osaka, Niigata and so on. http://item.rakuten.co.jp/miyage-chaya/1027316/ It costs about $5 for two pudding and it is reasonable price. Some people say the taste is good!

When I talked about it to one of our male members a couple years ago,
he was a pious religious man, he got angrily to say,
”Why Japanese women do not complain about it?”
“This is totally rude and disrespectful to women.”
I was embarrassed since his reaction was not what I predicted and I agreed with his word. Most of Japanese women get used to be looked down on from others. I introduced about the word “GUSAI”  and I understand that Japanese women usually accept that their position in the Japanese society is lower than Japanese men.
If it works to keep their social structure peaceful and harmonious they feel that would be no problem.
Regarding an “Oppai Pudding”, most of Japanese people don't care because it is just a joking. If it makes people laugh and fun, that would be wonderful for Japanese people.
However, if someone sells the Oppai Pudding in the western countries, women must standup and marching around the government building or sue to the company which produced “Oppai Pudding”.
Unfortunately, Japanese women wouldn't do like western women. They just laugh and feel that it would be just a little thing which is too stupid to talk.
If Japanese women would like to live in the western country, they should stand up and say “NO” if they feel it is NOT correct. That would be the way to survive and thrive in the western countries.

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What Are Your Three Most Favorite Romantic Movies of All Time?

“What are your three most favorite romantic movies of all time?”

This is a great question to ask your Japanese girlfriend or wife.

Most of our international couples do long distance correspondence, and it is not easy to see each other very often.

So, if you ask her what her most favorite romantic movies are, you guys can watch them individually and share your feelings with her even though there is more than 5000 miles distance between you and her.

Asking about this question also helps her to know your feelings about romance and about her, since she can imagine as if she were a heroine and you were a hero in the movie.

My husband and I selected his and mine favorite romantic movies, and we watch them on the weekends. This is a great time to cuddle! Thank you Netflix!!!

My favorite romantic movie is “New Cinema Paradise”, an Italian movie. I first watched it when I was a teenager and it still remains in my heart.

My husband's favorite romantic movie is “The Last of the Mohicans”. Regarding the title, I am wondering if it is really a romantic movie, but I am looking forward to watching it next time!

What are your favorite romantic movies? Please share them with us too!

The 50 most romantic movies of all time
http://www.timeout.com/newyork/film/the-50-most-romantic-movies-of-all-time

Naoko Matsumoto / CEO  and Your Personal Matchmaker

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Write Her a Snail Mail Letter to Show You Care About Her

 

The introduction of the internet supposedly has made our lives easier. However, one downside of instant digital communication is the loss of the art of writing a letter and communicating one’s love for another.

When a woman receives an email a very short text message written in a business like manner, do you think you are building an emotional connection with her? Does this little email make her feel happy? Do you think she can trust you to build up a sincere relationship with her?

Do you remember the era before the internet? People used to write long hand written letters with warm hearts to someone special. It might have taken hours to write a letter. And it might have taken a week or more to reach their love. The process may have been very slow. However, your love would have felt more of an emotional connection with you when she read your heartfelt hand written letter from you than to receive just a short and heartless text message.

When you are corresponding with a woman, please try to write a hand written letter sometimes penned with your beautiful words. And, choose a beautiful and colorful stamp to make her smile. You can also write an email as if it is a hand written letter that will take months to reach her by writing your true, heartfelt emotions in the letter.

Sincere and heartfelt communication is the foundation upon which the whole relationship is built upon. So practicing effective communication is paramount for a healthy, long term relationship. 

 

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Our Female Members' English Speaking Level is More Excellent than Your Japanese Speaking Level

I was shocked when I had a request from a male member who wanted to meet a Japanese woman with no accent whatsoever. Does such a perfect person exist? Is such perfection really important anyways?

When I was a child in Japan, English education started in the 7^th grade in public school. Recently, in order to increase the Japanese public's English speaking level, English education now starts in the 5^th grade, and it this will likely become even earlier. Some parents are having their children taught English as early as 3 years or younger. Also, the Japanese government and major companies in Japan are constantly encouraging people to learn English.

However, English is NOT Japanese people's first language. So, expecting a Japanese person to speak perfect English would be expecting a lot. If someone asks me if there is a Japanese woman who can speak perfect English without any accent, I would say, “generally NO”, but “There are always exceptions, and many Japanese women are constantly making an effort to learn English.”

If you are seeking a Japanese wife, you need to understand how hard it is for her to think, read, and write in English as a second language. It is helpful for you to be proud of your Japanese wife's big effort to learn English. Remember, your Japanese wife will surely improve her English speaking and writing level the longer she lives in the US. And I am sure if you are a good and patient listener, your marriage life with a Japanese wife will be successful.

By the way, I have been a matchmaker for more than 12 years. I have rarely met men who speak perfect Japanese language. And I have never met any man with no accent when they spoke in Japanese. We Japanese do understand it is very difficult for non-Japanese people to learn Japanese language. All we ask is for the same understanding.

Learning another language helps to increase your communication level and your understanding of other cultures. If you are seeking a Japanese wife, mutual understanding for each other’s language skill and a desire to learn better language skills are most important.

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Enjoy The Best Season in Japan!

This year, I have been visiting Japan since March 8th.
While I have been in Japan, I have been waiting anxiously for spring to come since this winter was colder than usual and spring has been late.

And finally, this weekend the Cherry blossoms started blooming in their full glory! Their stunning beauty is seen everywhere all over Tokyo. What a glorious sight!

Cherry or Sakura blossoms are a very special flowering tree for Japanese people. I feel very lucky since I am here in the best season in Japan to see them.

Some of our male members are visiting Japan this month to see our female members. I hope they are enjoying dating under the cherry blossoms.


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Why Japanese Women are Not Interested in Your Money

“I am rich.”
“I have Porsches.”
“I own gorgeous houses.”

We recommend that you do not say these words to our female members even though you may be a really a rich man.

If you do talk about how rich you are, many Japanese women will not understand why you are saying this anyways and may be confused as to your motives.

They may think, “Is this guy looking down on me?”
or
“Is this guy trying to control me with money?”

Generally, our female members are NOT gold diggers or are not looking for a rich man to marry.

They sincerely became a MJL member since they want to find a husband to share their happy life with and they understand their happiness is not only based on money. Of course, in order to maintain a happy life, most of our members would like to marry someone who can financially support the couple with adequate and stable income. Obviously, our members don’t want to marry a destitute husband.

Actually, most of our female member's annual income is as high as the average Japanese men’s income. Some of them earn more than $100K. They can buy whatever they want, and they travel abroad a couple of times a year. They are independent and there is no financial issue in their everyday lives. Also, they never expect their husband to financially support her parent’s family in Japan. This is unnecessary.

The most important thing you need to know is that our female members are looking for TRUE LOVE!!!!

If you are also looking for true love, don't show your wallet to her. Instead of that, show your true self to her. Ultimately, a strong connection with your partner will lead to happiness!


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News From Los Angeles: “We Are Engaged!”

今週の初めに、ＬＡ在住の女性から

『婚約しました！』のご報告をいただきました。

We received a very happy message from one of our female clients in LA.
“We Are Engaged!”

彼からもらった指輪のお写真と

お二人の幸せなお写真を添付くださいました。

They sent to us some of their photos.
We would like to share their photos showing their engagement rings.

彼女は2009年と2010年にＬＡで行った

ミーティングのイベントに参加くださいました。

参加されたときはもちろんシングルで（当たり前だって！）

おそらく、

Kaiwa-USA をきっかけに出会いがあるとは

半信半疑な状態だったと思います。

She attended our speed dating event in LA in 2009 and 2010.
She was single at that time, and she seemed a little tentative about using a matchmaking service since it was new for her and she may not have believed that it would work.
Well, MJL was very successful in helping her!
MJL introduced her to many fine gentlemen and she met her fiancée through our service.

でも、可能性を信じて、メンバー登録をされて

活動されていました。

However, she also understood that she needed to take action in order to find her special one.

結局、

ＬＡでのミーティングイベントに参加された殿方とのご縁は無かったものの

その後に、メンバーとして登録された男性（ＬＡ在住）と

トントントンとお話がまとまり

順調に交際を続けていらっしゃいました。

As a result of her choosing MJL for her matchmaking service, we introduced a gentleman in LA right after the event in 2010. It was great timing, and she and he both liked each other and have been corresponding with each other since then.

彼のプロポーズを受けて

正式に婚約が決まったということで

今回、ご報告をいただきました。

本当に、おめでとうございます。

At the beginning of November 2011, she wrote to us that she accepted his proposal and they were formally engaged.

彼女、50代ですが、年齢って関係ないですね。

いつも若々しく、とっても素敵な女性です。

わたしも、彼女のように輝いて美しい50代になりたい！

そんな思いで見つめていました。

She is in her 50's and has grown children. However, she is very attractive and sexy! I think age really doesn't matter if a woman takes care of herself and stays young, healthy and beautiful. I would like to be beautiful and healthy when I reach my 50's!!!

これからの人生を

パートナーといっしょに、

満喫してください！

I hope that this new, happy couple walks together forever in lifelong partnership.

Your Personal Matchmaker Naoko



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Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hague_Convention_on_the_Civil_Aspects_of_International_Child_Abduction


Have you heard about the “Hague Convention”???

The Japanese government has not agreed to this convention yet.

This means that if your Japanese wife travels to Japan with your children, the Japanese government will not adhere to the Hague Convention and help you to have your children returned to you. You can accuse your Japanese wife of being a kidnapper, but you can not take your children back to your country if they are in JAPAN. If you do, you can be accused of being a kidnapper in Japan.

The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction is a controversial issue in Japan since in some cases Japanese wives have taken their children from their husband and traveled to Japan, because they allege there were domestic violence issues and they are protecting themselves and their children safely in Japan. Therefore, the Japanese government is carefully hearing those cases and trying to come to an amenable outcome for everyone.

The Japanese government is showing signs that it will sign this convention this year; however, many Japanese people are opposed to this convention.

We don’t intend to scare you, but if you are thinking about marrying a Japanese woman, this is important information for you to know.

Of course, this is all a worst case scenario and this will never happen to most people.

In fact, MJL has a 0% divorce since we have been in business in 1999. We have a very successful matchmaking program and our successfully married members are happy.



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