あなたはキャリアの高い女性日本人女性との結婚を望みますか？
Would You Like to Marry a Japanese Career Woman?
昨日はＳＫＹＰＥインタビューで日本在住のドクターの女性とインタビューをする機会がありましたが、今日も、ドクターの女性４０代前半、来週はデンティスト、キャリアの高い女性たちが欧米人男性との出会いを求めてＭＪＬにお申し込みいただいています。
Recently, I talked with one of our female members who is a doctor living in Okinawa. And, I had another interview with a female doctor in Shizuoka prefecture today. Also, I will have one more interview with a Japanese woman who is a dentist.
彼女たちのキャリアは高いです。年収も、日本人男性の平均給与レベル以上を稼いでいます。
A typical female doctor’s annual income in Japan is very high and is typically more than the average income level of Japanese men.
日本人男性はキャリアの高い女性との結婚を望まない傾向があり
どちらかというと専業主婦タイプの女性を求めます。
Japanese men do not tend to choose a career woman as a wife. Instead, they would rather choose a type of Japanese woman who is traditional and wants to be a housewife.
家を守ってくれる人、おいしい食事を自分のために作ってくれる人、自分の身の回りの世話をしてくれる人、子供の世話をしてくれる人を結婚相手として求めているので
Japanese husbands typically want their wife to be at home to manage the household, to cook delicious food for the family, and to take care of the husband and children.
キャリアの高い女性、仕事のできる女性は敬遠される傾向にあるのではないか？
と、女性たちは考えます。そして、欧米人の男性方はそういう彼女たちのキャリアもパーソナリティーの一部として大事にしてくれると感じるので、日本人男性でなく欧米人男性との結婚を考えるという女性たちが最近特に多いです。
So, Japanese career women think that they will not be chosen by Japanese men as a wife. However, Japanese career women think that western men are more accepting of their career aspirations and will not see a career as an issue. That's why many Japanese career women would like to meet western men. Recently, we have many Japanese career women who have become our members and fit this category.
ひとつ、問題は
キャリアがあるといっても、例えばドクターの資格は日本国内でのライセンスなので、結婚してから海外で同じ資格を維持し、同じレベルの仕事をしようとすると、大学でその国の資格を取得してトレーニングをしなければならないこと。だから、ドクターという資格をお持ちでもすぐに他国でキャリアを生かして働くことができないので、日本国内に住むことで彼女たちのキャリアが生きてくるということ。
However, a Japanese woman who is a doctor can only work in Japan since her medical doctor's license is issued in Japan. If she wants to work in her chosen career as a doctor outside of Japan, she needs to get a new medical degree in a western country again, get a new license, and start her career all over again in that country. To do so, is a huge effort for them and will take at least several years, if not longer. Understandably, most Japanese women are reluctant to do so and would rather continue living and working in JAPAN in order to keep their current career status.
もし、あなたが、キャリアの高い日本人女性との結婚を望むとしたら、あなた自身のキャリアを捨てて日本に住むことができるかどうか？ということも考えなければならないですね。あるいは、女性が日本でのキャリアを捨ててまで海外に住んで何か新しい幸せを見つけつことをあなたが夫としてサポートすることができるか？という問題が残ります。
Do you dream of marrying such a Japanese career woman? Would you be willing to give up your career so that she may continue hers? Or, conversely, are you able to support her if she gives up her career in Japan and moves to your country and has no income of her own?
あなたはキャリアの高い女性との結婚を望みますか？
Would you be interested in marrying a Japanese career woman? If yes, please tell us why or how this can work for you?
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