We Are Engaged –MJL’s First Happy Couple in 2014!

We received a wonderful message from one of our male members in Los Angeles. “We Are Engaged!”


We responded with, “Congratulations to you both!”


He visited Japan last fall in order to meet some of our female members. And he decided to choose one of these females as his wife.

I remember when he became our member during an interview with me, he said that he has a goal oriented personality, and that he has accomplished many big tasks in life with dedicated concentration.

He sounded very confident.

So, I felt that it would be very easy for him to find a wife.

The way it works is that if you really want to marry, and you are completely dedicated with all of your energy on meeting someone to marry, it will happen. And, I saw his complete dedication in him when I first talked with him on Skype.

If you have complete dedication to finding a wife, women will feel that you are sincere, and they will feel comfortable with you and trust you. If you take initiative, it is easy for women to believe in you.


He made a decision to visit Japan within 6 months since he became a Full Member. At his first meeting he met some of our female members whom he had chosen. His dedication to finding a wife was successful for him and happened rather quickly since he had a goal oriented mind. It all worked out wonderfully for him!


We are happy for him and his fiancé!

Their engagement is MJL’s first one in 2014. We look forward to hearing from more of our clients who decide to get engaged this year! Let 2014 be the year to make it happen!!!

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We are Engaged!

One of our female members recently wrote to us.

"♥ We are ENGAGED ♥"

We replied, 

“♥ CONGRATULATIONS♥ ”

※This picture is not related to our members.

I remember that it was early June when she enrolled in our Trial Membership.


She and Luna, our Matchmaker kept talking.
And, she chose some candidates and started as a Full Member in early July.


A male client started communicating with her and visited her in Japan in the middle of September, and she decided to visit him after that.


Things went smoothly for them. They had been thinking deeply about each other and they built up their committed relationship with sincere affections.


It has been 5 months since they start communicating by email and Skype when they decided to get married. This was a fairly short time in our members’ records.

They will try to obtain a fiancé visa for her. This will take more than 6 months to one year to obtain which is an incredibly LONG TIME, but it is normal. 

If you would like to start searching for a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, you can learn from this example as to how long the process takes and figure out what to do right now.


If you have already decided “I am going to be married in 2014”, please take action now!

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Moving to New Country is Challenging for Career Focused Spouse

We had two happy couples who got engaged last month. Congratulations to them both! We are very happy for them!


One of the female members who got engaged, is very focused on her career. Japanese men usually prefer to marry a woman who is a housewife type. So, it is not easy for a woman like her who has a successful career to find the right man. In addition, once she meets the ideal man, choosing marriage usually means that she must give up her career when they relocate to her fiancé’s country. 


In this situation, here are two possible solutions:

1. The couple decides to live in his country. She gives up her career in Japan and start a new career in his country. In order to do this, she will most likely need to attend a university to obtain a degree or certificate. 
2. The couple decides to live in Japan. He gives up his career in his country and he starts a new career in Japan. This may mean going to school for training or limits the number of jobs that he can apply for.

Fortunately, they decided to start a new life in Japan. It is still a challenging situation for him since he is looking for a job in Japan.

However, the most important thing is that they support each other and they are so happy being together! 

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Surrender and the Universe Will Answer Your Desires

We had two happy couples who got engaged last month. Congratulations to them both! We are very happy for them!

One of the male members who got engaged, first became our FULL MEMBER more than three years ago. In the beginning we worked with him in finding his Japanese wife for one year. However, he was not successful. He didn’t renew his membership and he decided to try on his own.

After a year or so, he came back to MJL and told us that he would like to start with us again.

This time he decided to proceed with our service differently. He told us, “The first time I registered with MJL, I was trying to choose a woman. I think that is why it didn’t work for me. This time, I will try to be chosen by one of your female members. Naoko san, please let me know when one of your female members is interested in me!”

I really think that “LETTING YOURSELF BE CHOSEN” is the better way to find your lifelong partner. Unfortunately, most male members follow the opposite way where they try to “CHOOSE THE BEST ONE”, which is not as successful.

He realized that following the western mentality of trying to control the situation made things worse and did not bring about happiness for anyone. After this realization he decided to try the opposite way of “SURRENDERING TO THE UNIVERSE” and asking for assistance from MJL’s matchmaker, Naoko. This instilled his mind with a new outlook with trust and belief in other people and the world that things would work for him this time. And they did! This is the reason he finally found his life partner.

He declared, “Naoko san ARIGATO!”

I am so happy for both of our recent couples!

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We Are Engaged and Just Started to Live Together!

Summer is a great chance for everyone to meet in person with your loved one.

Many of our female members visited to meet with their loved ones these last few months and we have received positive feedback after their wonderful journey.

I am happy to hear that some of MJL's hot couples became engaged this summer!

We confirmed that there were 4 new engaged couples last month. Congratulations!

One of our male members in Europe sent us his happy message. We would like to share it with you.

--------------------(From here)--------------------

Hi Naoko,

I hope that you are doing well and that you are enjoying some summer vacation.

We are having a beautiful blue sky - sunny weather in ***** currently.

I wanted to share the greatest and happiest news of the July.

***** moved to Paris.

We are now living together in my place.

I have been able to take a 4-week vacation to help her in discovering ***** and my area.

It is very much exciting.

We are recording our marriage dossier early next week at the city hall.

We are expecting to get a date for the ceremony in early September.

I will keep you posted.

Thank you again for having helped me in writing this beautiful story.

Kind regards.

***** (His name).

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When I visited Japan in March to April this year,

he also came to Japan to meet with her at their first meeting in April.

I remember that right before meeting with her,
he visited our office in Tokyo where he and I talked about their relationship.

I gave him lots of encouragement and crossed my fingers!

At that time, nobody knew that he and she would be engaged so soon.

So I am so surprised that that he and she have already started a new life together!

It is amazing how they made a truly loving connection! It was like love at first sight!

I am happy for him and her! Congratulations!

News From Los Angeles: “We Are Engaged!”

今週の初めに、ＬＡ在住の女性から

『婚約しました！』のご報告をいただきました。

We received a very happy message from one of our female clients in LA.
“We Are Engaged!”

彼からもらった指輪のお写真と

お二人の幸せなお写真を添付くださいました。

They sent to us some of their photos.
We would like to share their photos showing their engagement rings.

彼女は2009年と2010年にＬＡで行った

ミーティングのイベントに参加くださいました。

参加されたときはもちろんシングルで（当たり前だって！）

おそらく、

Kaiwa-USA をきっかけに出会いがあるとは

半信半疑な状態だったと思います。

She attended our speed dating event in LA in 2009 and 2010.
She was single at that time, and she seemed a little tentative about using a matchmaking service since it was new for her and she may not have believed that it would work.
Well, MJL was very successful in helping her!
MJL introduced her to many fine gentlemen and she met her fiancée through our service.

でも、可能性を信じて、メンバー登録をされて

活動されていました。

However, she also understood that she needed to take action in order to find her special one.

結局、

ＬＡでのミーティングイベントに参加された殿方とのご縁は無かったものの

その後に、メンバーとして登録された男性（ＬＡ在住）と

トントントンとお話がまとまり

順調に交際を続けていらっしゃいました。

As a result of her choosing MJL for her matchmaking service, we introduced a gentleman in LA right after the event in 2010. It was great timing, and she and he both liked each other and have been corresponding with each other since then.

彼のプロポーズを受けて

正式に婚約が決まったということで

今回、ご報告をいただきました。

本当に、おめでとうございます。

At the beginning of November 2011, she wrote to us that she accepted his proposal and they were formally engaged.

彼女、50代ですが、年齢って関係ないですね。

いつも若々しく、とっても素敵な女性です。

わたしも、彼女のように輝いて美しい50代になりたい！

そんな思いで見つめていました。

She is in her 50's and has grown children. However, she is very attractive and sexy! I think age really doesn't matter if a woman takes care of herself and stays young, healthy and beautiful. I would like to be beautiful and healthy when I reach my 50's!!!

これからの人生を

パートナーといっしょに、

満喫してください！

I hope that this new, happy couple walks together forever in lifelong partnership.

Your Personal Matchmaker Naoko



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