We had two
happy couples who got engaged last month. Congratulations to them both! We are
very happy for them!
One of the male
members who got engaged, first became our FULL MEMBER more than three years
ago. In the beginning we worked with him in finding his Japanese wife for one
year. However, he was not successful. He didn’t renew his membership and he
decided to try on his own.
After a
year or so, he came back to MJL and told us that he would like to start with us
again.
This time
he decided to proceed with our service differently. He told us, “The first time
I registered with MJL, I was trying to choose a woman. I think that is why it
didn’t work for me. This time, I will try to be chosen by one of your female
members. Naoko san, please let me know when one of your female members is
interested in me!”
I really
think that “LETTING YOURSELF BE CHOSEN” is the better way to find your lifelong
partner. Unfortunately, most male members follow the opposite way where they try
to “CHOOSE THE BEST ONE”, which is not as successful.
He realized
that following the western mentality of trying to control the situation made
things worse and did not bring about happiness for anyone. After this
realization he decided to try the opposite way of “SURRENDERING TO THE UNIVERSE”
and asking for assistance from MJL’s matchmaker, Naoko. This instilled his mind
with a new outlook with trust and belief in other people and the world that
things would work for him this time. And they did! This is the reason he
finally found his life partner.
He
declared, “Naoko san ARIGATO!”
I am so
happy for both of our recent couples!
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