Open Yourself to The Universe, and Good Things Will Happen - To Be Chosen or To Choose

One of our male members visited one of our female members last week. To make a long story short, they met at our office, got along together, and they decided to step up to an exclusive relationship which means that they changed their membership status “PINK HEART”. 

Actually, it was the second time that he became our Full Member. Once before he gave up and cancelled our Full Membership and decided to find his love by himself.  However, he didn't find a good chemistry with anyone he met. So, he returned to PJM and became our Full Member again last year. At that time, he told me, “Naoko san, I will not choose any women, but I will accept any women if they choose me.” I thought it was a great idea, and we followed his relationships’ activities. As he had previously stated, he didn’t make any contact requests, and he received some contact requests from our female members. He decided to communicate with one woman with special interest.

Finally, he came to our Tokyo Office to meet with her in person last month. It was the best time for their first meeting since the cherry blossoms were in full bloom. The utter beauty of the cherry blossoms lent a romantic atmosphere to their surroundings!

After their first meeting they said that they felt a strong chemistry between them and they decided to go to the next step to create a deeper relationship.

That's FANTASTIC!

There are many men and women who try to meet as many candidates as possible. As a result of that they cannot choose one, or they believe there must be more and more beautiful women for them but it usually doesn’t work out that way.

I think the reason he succeeded in finding his ideal woman at this time is because he didn’t choose her, rather he accepted the woman who selected him. It might be called “SURRENDER”, and god selected the best one for him.

If you have spent a long time in “CHOOSING ONE”, stop it and just “SURRENDER”! God in your universe will select the right person for you! You can help the process by envisioning the type of person you want to be with.

If you are a full member and struggle to meet the right partner, please feel free to make an appointment with Naoko or Luna to discuss your match. Talking with you, creating your solution, and making you and your Japanese partner happy is our mission!

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Romance Scammers

Do you know about the phrase “Romance Scammer”?
They sneak around online dating sites pretending to be a person who is looking for a partner. However, their purpose is not to find sincere love, rather they are looking for money and/or sex. They use somebody else’s photos, and their profiles are all fake.
We have many applications from male members all over the world every day. Unfortunately, some of the applicants are detected as romance scammers. We at MJL place a high priority of having high standards for our members in order to provide our members with a top quality experience with the best results, and to keep everyone safe.

In order to protect our clients, we screen each applicant carefully. This is why some people say that MJL's qualifications are too strict or the documents that MJL requires are too personal. However, we believe that screening our male clients by requiring certain documents is the best way to ascertain who the qualified applicants are and who are not since all transactions are done through the internet.

Fortunately, we have never had any major issues with false identities of our members since we started our matchmaking company in 1999. I think it is because of our unique system where we require male members to visit Japan to meet our female clients for their first meeting. Male members have to spend a lot of time and money for one visit. And usually, one of our staff members attends the meeting. For romance scammers, becoming a member of MJL does not make sense for them since the costs and time involved are too high. 

On the other hand, we require all our female members to visit our Tokyo office before signing up for Full Membership. They come to our office in Tokyo even though they may live as far away as Okinawa or Hokkaido and they have an interview with our staff, and sometimes their conversations last for more than 3 hours! Romance scammers would not make this much effort or take this much risk to visit our office and meet with our staff. Up to this time, we have never had a female applicant romance scammer!

We have heard from some of our male clients of how they were victims of international dating and marriage fraud in other Asian countries when using other dating websites or marriage agencies.

If you google “romance scammer”, you will see examples of these scams. 
One important lesson to keep in mind in order to avoid being scammed is to never send someone money if you have never met them in person. Some people may feel that he or she truly knows or trusts someone after corresponding with him or her through the internet over a long period of time, but you will only really know a person when you actually meet him or her in person.

I hope all people who are looking for their ideal partners are careful for their safety.
MJL only welcomes clients who are looking for sincere love and happy marriage!

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Personalized Matchmaking Service for Professional Men & Sophisticated Japanese Women
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