How to Meet Japanese Women: Matchmaker Naoko's Support Blog: June 2013

June 26, 2013

Japanese Women: She is 50 Years Old!

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June 23, 2013

How Our “Two Weeks Reply Rule” Works - Being Responsible Is Most Important

We appreciate that most of our male and female members are very responsible since they are NOT looking for boyfriends/girlfriends but they are sincerely looking for their lifelong partner.

However, some members do not communicate with us or other members for a long time. This does not create a trusting environment and creates confusion among our other members. We truly need members whose priority is finding their future partner.

So, we have decided to implement a new rule called “Two Weeks Reply Rule” for all members.

Here is how it works. If we haven’t received a reply from a member within two weeks, your status will be changed to an “inactive” member, and your profile will be turned off until you contact us. It means that you will not be able to browse our members’ detailed profiles nor communicate with them. However, we are still open to you whenever you have time to talk with us.

Also, if our male members do not reply to a contact request from one of our female members within two weeks, we will automatically send a “decline” reply to her. In addition, your account will be changed to an “inactive” member until you contact us.

We believe that this new “Two Weeks Reply Rule” will create clear communication and fairness for all of our members.

We believe that being responsible is a most important quality in creating a harmonious relationship.

June 22, 2013

Announcement　– Naoko Will Be in Portland Oregon!

Dear MJL Client,

We inform you that Naoko will be in Portland Oregon as following schedule.

Thu July 4th 2013 to Sun July 14th 2013

Inquiry by Telephone/email:
During this time, we are unable to receive your phone call, but we are able to read and reply to you by email. (It can be slower than usual, sorry.) If you would like to talk with one of our staff members, please call our Tokyo office (M-F 10am-5pm JPT)

20 minutes Skype Consultation:
Naoko is NOT able to schedule a 20 minutes skype consultation during this time. Please ask Luna for the appointment.

Naoko will get back to Baltimore on Sun July 14, and she will catch up on working with her regular schedule by the end of the week.

We are sorry for this inconvenience.

June 21, 2013

A Friend Relationship Does Not Exist If You Are Looking for a Lifelong Partner

When men decline having relationships with women, they think they should be polite so they say, “I would like to be your friend.”

Men believe that they are being kind to women by offering friendship, but in reality being friends creates unfortunate situations where women are still expecting men to come back to them even though the men have moved on.

If you are no longer interested in her, it would be better to clearly say “NO” to her. You may feel guilty or feel bad in the short term, but in the long term your clear word of “NO” will encourage her to move on and find someone else.

Some men keep women as friends, but if you are really looking for a future wife, having many girlfriends doesn’t make sense. Keeping in touch with women whom you do not really love makes trouble between you and a woman you love or you are going to love. She may feel disloyal to a you if you keep many women as friends.

If you would like to meet the right woman, say “NO” to the woman you do not feel any chemistry with and close the door firmly, and move on as soon as possible. Erase her email address, remove her as a Facebook friend, and remove her from your online social network. In this way you are clearly starting that you are ready for a new woman to come into your life.

It might be hard for you, but it is the best way and quickest way to find the right woman for you.

When you decline, stop making FRIEND RELATIONSHIPS and you will find your ONE and ONLY soon.

June 04, 2013

2013.6.4 Japan 1-1 Australia World Cup　The moment of the Honda goal

Thank you Honda!

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June 03, 2013

The More Selections You Have, The More Difficult to Choose

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1pq5jnM1C-A

Here is a lecture titled: Art of Choosing by Sheena Iyengar.

In her study,
she has found that it is difficult for people to choose when there are too many choices.

I agree with this study, and have seen the same dynamics play out with men & women who want to meet many candidates, but ultimately cannot make any decision on choosing a partner. And, on the opposite perspective, men & women who want to meet a few nice candidates quickly meet a partner and decide to marry. In our 15 years of business experience of matchmaking service, this is typically what happens.

I think this video will help you understand the science of choosing.

June 02, 2013

Japan’s Group Dating (gokon) Culture

Here is an interesting VLOG.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkGgHvZbbXY

Chika grew up in Seattle, but she lives in Japan now. She speaks English and Japanese and she teaches English and American culture to Japanese people. She also teaches Japanese language and culture to non Japanese people through this VLOG.

I hope you will learn about the typical Japanese group dating culture called “gokon”. It helps teach the participants how to behave with their first meeting with a Japanese woman in Japan.

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