A friend of mine gave me a book titled “I Am Ready to be Happy” by William Rainen written in Japanese. He is a spiritualist in Hawaii, and he is popular in Japan.
Reading this book made me feel warm and calm! Thank you!
There are some parts which relate to marriage relationships, and I was inspired.
Here is a quote from the book. It is written in Japanese, so the translation is paraphrased.
“If you wish to marry someone, when you meet someone, it is important to honestly say to him or her that I am thinking about being married in the future.”
It does not mean that you want marry him or her. He or she has a choice!
It means that I am looking for a lifelong partner and I am not playing with people. It is very important to keep telling people around you about your desire to be married.
If you are seeing someone that you are not interested in and consider just a date or a penpal, and they understand that you are serious, they would most likely not be interested in you. So, by not following this path, you and he/she do not have to waste each other's valuable time.
On the other hand, if they are also seriously looking for a lifelong partner, and they understand your intentions, the relationship might blossom. Even if they are not interested in you, their friends and relatives will learn that you are looking for a happy marriage, and the happiness might come to you through word of mouth.
When I came to the US to study I was 36 years old and most of my classmates in the ESL class were teenagers or in their early 20's. Because of the age difference I was always hanging around my teachers and professors.
Since I always told them that I would like to find a lifelong partner and live in the US, they often introduced me to their friends for me to date. Fortunately, one of my friends introduced me to a man and I had a wonderful time with him in California. Luckily for me, he is now my husband.
This book says that you can create your own life by manifesting your desires. And it is called affirmation.
It means that you can make your dreams come true by expressing your true desires to other people.
If you are looking for a Japanese woman, and you desire a “Happy Marriage”, you can start by telling people around you, and your dream will come true sooner or later.
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