Yesterday, I telephoned a women who became a member recently. She is a student. Some men have already contacted her, but she said she is too busy to reply because she has to prepare for a test. I understand, but why has she tried to become a member now? I believe that she can keep a balance between studying and romance. But I told her not to be a member if she can't do it. Because some men are very serious for marriage, I don't want her to be rude. Likewise, there are some cases when men don't reply even though they are receiving emails. Of course, either can choose "Yes" or "No", but I would like both men and women to reply in a polite way even though they don't think it is a good match.