April 08, 2013

Open Yourself to The Universe, and Good Things Will Happen - To Be Chosen or To Choose

One of our male members visited one of our female members last week. To make a long story short, they met at our office, got along together, and they decided to step up to an exclusive relationship which means that they changed their membership status “PINK HEART”

Actually, it was the second time that he became our Full Member. Once before he gave up and cancelled our Full Membership and decided to find his love by himself.  However, he didn't find a good chemistry with anyone he met. So, he returned to PJM and became our Full Member again last year. At that time, he told me, “Naoko san, I will not choose any women, but I will accept any women if they choose me.” I thought it was a great idea, and we followed his relationships’ activities. As he had previously stated, he didn’t make any contact requests, and he received some contact requests from our female members. He decided to communicate with one woman with special interest.

Finally, he came to our Tokyo Office to meet with her in person last month. It was the best time for their first meeting since the cherry blossoms were in full bloom. The utter beauty of the cherry blossoms lent a romantic atmosphere to their surroundings!

After their first meeting they said that they felt a strong chemistry between them and they decided to go to the next step to create a deeper relationship.


There are many men and women who try to meet as many candidates as possible. As a result of that they cannot choose one, or they believe there must be more and more beautiful women for them but it usually doesn’t work out that way.

I think the reason he succeeded in finding his ideal woman at this time is because he didn’t choose her, rather he accepted the woman who selected him. It might be called “SURRENDER”, and god selected the best one for him.

If you have spent a long time in “CHOOSING ONE”, stop it and just “SURRENDER”! God in your universe will select the right person for you! You can help the process by envisioning the type of person you want to be with.

If you are a full member and struggle to meet the right partner, please feel free to make an appointment with Naoko or Luna to discuss your match. Talking with you, creating your solution, and making you and your Japanese partner happy is our mission!

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