Q1-Can an American man find happiness with a Japanese girl?

The attraction between American (Western) men and Japanese ladies is one of the strongest attractions of all possible international relationships. Western men grow up learning `how to be a gentlemen` and Japanese ladies grow up learning to be cute and adorable. A match made in heaven.

Q2-What is the most important thing in maintaining the relationship?

After you've been dating a Japanese lady for a few months you will realise the differences between you are greater than you first expected. The unique history and culture of Japan means that Japanese people have quite a different reason for being. It feels like their every action and thought is different to ours. An interest in these difference and a willingness to teach and learn will lead not only to a satisfying relationship but also to a meaningful and satisfying life for both of you.