Q2-What is the most important thing in maintaining the relationship?

After you've been dating a Japanese lady for a few months you will realise the differences between you are greater than you first expected. The unique history and culture of Japan means that Japanese people have quite a different reason for being. It feels like their every action and thought is different to ours. An interest in these difference and a willingness to teach and learn will lead not only to a satisfying relationship but also to a meaningful and satisfying life for both of you.