Long time ago, one of our female members visited the man whom she was
corresponding with in the US and stay there for three weeks to make sure if she
felt comfortable living there.
Since
he has a job, she was supposed to be in his house alone until he came back.
However, there was no internet access. He went to Starbucks when he needed to
go online. There was no car for her, she had no friends there. She was like a
bird in a cage for more than two weeks. She completed reading the books she
brought with her from Japan. She had nothing to do for most of the day and was there
alone. Finally, she gave up staying there and went back to Tokyo. Needless to
say, she and he broke up after that. I do not want to blame him, but there must
have been a better way for him to welcome her to the US and show her that he
really wanted her to stay with him and that he really wanted to marry her.
Before
she visits you, it would be nice to prepare for her to make her feel welcome and
happy. The best way to do this is to at least provide the following things for
her:
1)
Fast
Internet access.
2)
Area
map with your location and how to use the public transportation to the
downtown.
3)
Local
information about shops, libraries, cafés, and restaurants.
4)
Information
about Japanese community if there is any Japanese community near your town.
5)
Locations
of rental car companies or Zipcar. She can drive if she has an international driver’s
license.
The
purpose of her visiting you is to for her to see if she feels comfortable staying
with you. If you pass this test, then your relationship will move on to the
next stage. So it is most important for you to prepare to make her happy.
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