October 27, 2013

Japanese Women Want to Experience Nature





My son and I went to an apple picking picnic as an outdoor activity for his Japanese class.

We drove for 30 minutes from downtown Baltimore and saw peaceful farm landscapes all around us. Since I had lived in central Tokyo, seeing the countryside is a great experience for me.

If your Japanese girlfriend says, “I enjoy a relaxing lifestyle,” you and she may feel happy to live here together. However, most Japanese women may feel a culture shock upon arriving in the US since living in Japan is extremely developed, super convenient with buildings and stores everywhere, and most people live in cities in Japan.

As a matchmaker, I always tell our female members not to expect the same lifestyle that they have now in Tokyo. I tell them to be openminded about their new upcoming life in America and to be ready to create a new sense of value.

If Japanese women have flexibility and can enjoy the differences between the American lifestyle and the Japanese lifestyle, their life is going to be abundant.

If your Japanese girlfriend has not yet experienced wild nature which urban cities don’t have, it would be nice for you and her to explore the outdoors together.


My son and I enjoyed a wonderful Fall day at the apple farm in rural Maryland where we felt the warm sunshine and saw the pastoral scenes.



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October 15, 2013

Online Dating, Do I Choose Quantity or Quality?











Many people who get used to using online dating services probably think meeting someone online is easy. They might think if they lose interest in one person after chatting or a short communication, it is easy to seek someone new. Many people believe the saying of “Even a poor shot will hit the mark (eventually) if he tries often enough.” However, can a person really find someone special by meeting many people?

There is a Japanese traditional saying “Ichi Go Ichi E”. Here is the link: http://bit.ly/XKUY9 . “Ichi Go Ichi E” is Zen Word which means, “Value the person you meet in this moment, for he or she is certainly intended for you”.

As a matchmaker, I always tell our members to take the time to see your match deeply. Find out his or her inner beauty. Think about why you chose her, or why you are chosen by her. Think about “Ichi Go Ichi E”. Meeting someone on this planet at this moment is an amazing opportunity and is a miracle since you and she were selected to be a couple from the billions of people on the planet.

I definitely want all of our members to think more about Quality instead of Quantity. When you focus on creating a Quality Life with someone special, you will achieve your goal of a happy marriage.

All of our members who got happily married were following the “Ichi Go Ichi E” method. 



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