May 19, 2013

Is “AWESOME” a Good Word to Use in a Conversation Between You and Your Date?


One of my girlfriends in California, who is her mid-thirties often says, “Sounds Awesome!” I like to hear that kind of positive word since she is always happy and encouraging her friends around her.

I recently introduced the phrase, 
“Sounds Awesome!”, in my newsletter for female members because I thought “Sounds Awesome!” is a miracle phrase to make their email conversation vivid and male members who hear this word are going to be happy. I thought that “Sounds Awesome!” sounds much more human than just use “Sounds Great.”

Right after I sent my newsletter to our female members, one of our readers (She is Japanese), who is not one of our members,  wrote to me that it would be better NOT to use 
“Sounds Awesome!” when communicating with native speakers of English. She believes that “Sounds Awesome!” is a kind of slang, and it “Sounds Awful” if professional men hear that phrase. She said that she belongs to an organization of English education in JAPAN.

I would like to ask all professional men who are English native speakers about this topic.

Is it a bad idea for Japanese women to use “Sounds Awesome” when communicating with their dates?

Does it sound childish or immature?

I asked my ESL teacher in California, and he said that using “Sounds Awesome” is not that bad, but it is still slang, so it would be better to consider who you are speaking to and where you are with him. He also suggested not to use “Awesome” in a business meeting.

I understand.

I am so curious about learning new words, so I also asked some of my friends and here is my understanding of what they thought.  
I would like to know more about the word 
“Awesome” 


For example, if both A and B are teenagers, and A is showing his new motorcycle to B.
A: Hey, this is my new motorcycle!
B: That’s Awesome!
I understand it is natural if “Awesome!” is in teenagers’ conversation.

n another example, if both A and B are adults, and a guy gives his girlfriend a gift in a fancy restaurant.
A: Happy birthday! Here is my birthday gift to you…..
B: WOW…. That’s Awesome!!!!
Do you think she is childish?
Do you think she should say “That’s MARVELOUS!!!” instead? (I was taught the word MARVELOUS, but I have never heard that American people use this word in their everyday conversation.  Is it British English?????)


Generally speaking, do you think that adults should not use the word 
“Awesome”  in everyday conversation? I am still questioning if 
“Awesome”  is such a poor word choice?????


I also asked my husband, and he explained, that he sees these positive words as progressing from lower to highest levels of power:
Good < Great < Super < Awesome.
He feels that “Awesome” is more expressive than good, great, or super. He also believes that anyone is free to use words they want as this is an honest expression of that person.

I also asked my mother in law who is in her 70’s. She personally doesn’t use the word “Awesome!” but she feels enthusiastic when she hears the word from someone.





Right after I asked her, she gave me a newspaper article which had the word “Awesome”. If it is used in a newspaper article, it means that it is an acceptable word, which leads me to think that awesome is not a poor word choice even though it is slang. But I am still unclear about how to use the word “Awesome” .

I asked one guy in SNS who is an AMERICAN living in JAPAN. He said you shouldn't use “Awesome”  in your business meeting.

I noticed that all of them didn’t say that “Awesome” is only for adults.

I understand that we must use language differently in time, place, and occasion (private vs. public). However, English is not the first language for Japanese people; we need to learn everyday English more than English in the text book. I mean if Japanese people get used to the verbal English, communicating with native English speakers would be more natural.

A language lives in each moment and words and phrases are always changing since human beings were born. I think it would be great to use words and phrases that are vivid, and it helps to create more dynamic relationships with others than using ordinary words. I learned the word “Marvelous” in the textbook when I lived in Japan, but unfortunately, I do not have many opportunities to hear it in my life in the US. People study Shakespeare, but I don’t think many people speak Shakespearean English in the 21st century.

ANYWAY, I would like to ask all my blog readers if it sounds fine or childish for a 30 year old woman to say “Awespme!” to her boyfriend when she receives a gift?

Thank you for your help!!!!
Naoko 


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May 18, 2013

Announcing MJL’s New Membership Fees


As we have previously announced, MJL’s membership fees will be changing soon.
Hereis a chart of MJL’s new membership fees. (Click to see)

Obviously, you will get a great deal if you enroll today as a new member. Also, if you are currently a full member, renewing your membership now is also a good deal too. If you wait too long, you will miss out on these special savings.

We recently have a lot of successful couples since we started monthly coaching sessions for our female members. We will also start this service for male members when the new system starts. Discussing about the issues between male and female members will help to create harmonious relationships for all members. And we are sure it works!

If you are still thinking about becoming a member, please contact us as soon as possible.
We look forward to having you as a member and letting us assist you in finding your ideal Japanese woman soon!


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May 12, 2013

Happy Mother's Day ♥



Last Sunday, I had a nice time with my son and my husband. 
It was my 4th Mother's Day 


I appreciate that I became a mother because of my husband!!!



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May 10, 2013

In Japan, Hague Convention Will Be Approved Soon



Hague Convention will be approved in Japan very soon.
I think this is a good news for you.


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May 09, 2013

KODOMO NO HI - The Children's Day in JAPAN



May 5th is the CHILDREN's DAY in JAPAN. It is a National holiday in Japan. We celebrate for children. The object which my son is having is called KOINOBORI. KOI=Carp. Old Japanese people wish their children to grow strongly like a carp swiming against the torrent. 

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May 06, 2013

Mayfair in USA





Mayfair event at our son's pre kinder. It was our first experience, and we enjoyed it very much!

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