April 22, 2013

Interviewing Female Members is What Sets MJL Apart


One important distinction with MJL’s service, that no other comparable business performs, is that we interview our female members.
私たちのユニークな取り組みのひとつとして
女性ひとりひとりにインタビューを行うことをしています。


Before signing up to become Full Members with us, all of our female members have already had an interview at our Tokyo office or on skype.
フルメンバーになる前にオフィスに来てもらって
あるいはSKYPEにて話をすることで

This interview with our female members serves several important functions. First, the interview allows MJL to clearly understand if our female members are sincerely looking for a marriage partner for a long term relationship.
女性が真剣にパートナーを探しているのかどうか?
ということがはっきりわかります。


Secondly, this interview also works as a screening tool, allowing MJL to determine if our female members meet our membership standards. We do not accept all females as MJL members. After talking with one of our staff members in Tokyo, we decide if we can accept them as our member. 
東京オフィスの担当者宮田と話してみて
全ての女性を受け入れるわけではありません。


We give great preference to female clients who have a peaceful personality, who want to make an effort to create happy marriages, who can communicate well with an open mind, and also who show Japanese spirit and loyalty to their future husbands.
 幸せな結婚に結びつけるために努力を惜しまない方
男性の気持ちを理解できる方
日本人としての誇りを持っている方を選んで
メンバーとして受け入れています。


Conversely, we do not accept women simply because they are beautiful and model like. We place great emphasis on women who communicate well. So, women who display difficulty with communication are not likely to be chosen. We believe that the most important element for creating a happy marriage is how well a person communicates.
姿は美しくてもコミュニケーションが難しい方は
インタビューに来ていただいても
審査で落とされることもあります。



Since MJL believes in the thoroughness of our interview process, we are proud to introduce all MJL’s female members to all our male members.
その結果
私たちがメンバーとして受け入れた全ての女性は
自身を持って男性のみなさまにご紹介できます。



One of our goals at MJL is to create great relationships with both our male and female members forming a happy circle made up of all of our successful couples, who are happy and maintain their marriages for a lifetime.
また、よいご縁だけをご紹介することができるので
結婚してからもうまく行くことが多いです。



Therefore, our divorce rate has been zero percent since we started this service for over 14 years. MJL is very proud of this fact.
この仕事をスタートしてから
離婚したカップルがひとつも無いということが
私たちの自慢です。



It takes time and effort, but we believe that interviewing members is a very important part of MJL’s service, and allows us to welcome nice people into our happy circle.  We will never take short cuts for short term gain. 
インタビューは時間も手間もかかりますが
私たちはこの作業を省略することはしません。


MJL’s interview process is an important way MJL creates a better value for its members and helps to set us apart from all other similar businesses.
これは、ただのDATINGサイトとの大きな違いです。



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April 08, 2013

Open Yourself to The Universe, and Good Things Will Happen - To Be Chosen or To Choose


One of our male members visited one of our female members last week. To make a long story short, they met at our office, got along together, and they decided to step up to an exclusive relationship which means that they changed their membership status “PINK HEART”

Actually, it was the second time that he became our Full Member. Once before he gave up and cancelled our Full Membership and decided to find his love by himself.  However, he didn't find a good chemistry with anyone he met. So, he returned to PJM and became our Full Member again last year. At that time, he told me, “Naoko san, I will not choose any women, but I will accept any women if they choose me.” I thought it was a great idea, and we followed his relationships’ activities. As he had previously stated, he didn’t make any contact requests, and he received some contact requests from our female members. He decided to communicate with one woman with special interest.

Finally, he came to our Tokyo Office to meet with her in person last month. It was the best time for their first meeting since the cherry blossoms were in full bloom. The utter beauty of the cherry blossoms lent a romantic atmosphere to their surroundings!

After their first meeting they said that they felt a strong chemistry between them and they decided to go to the next step to create a deeper relationship.

That's FANTASTIC!

There are many men and women who try to meet as many candidates as possible. As a result of that they cannot choose one, or they believe there must be more and more beautiful women for them but it usually doesn’t work out that way.

I think the reason he succeeded in finding his ideal woman at this time is because he didn’t choose her, rather he accepted the woman who selected him. It might be called “SURRENDER”, and god selected the best one for him.

If you have spent a long time in “CHOOSING ONE”, stop it and just “SURRENDER”! God in your universe will select the right person for you! You can help the process by envisioning the type of person you want to be with.



If you are a full member and struggle to meet the right partner, please feel free to make an appointment with Naoko or Luna to discuss your match. Talking with you, creating your solution, and making you and your Japanese partner happy is our mission!





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Singles Meetup in Los Angeles
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