January 21, 2013

Romance Scammers

Do you know about the phrase “Romance Scammer”?
They sneak around online dating sites pretending to be a person who is looking for a partner. However, their purpose is not to find sincere love, rather they are looking for money and/or sex. They use somebody else’s photos, and their profiles are all fake.
We have many applications from male members all over the world every day. Unfortunately, some of the applicants are detected as romance scammers. We at MJL place a high priority of having high standards for our members in order to provide our members with a top quality experience with the best results, and to keep everyone safe.

In order to protect our clients, we screen each applicant carefully. This is why some people say that MJL's qualifications are too strict or the documents that MJL requires are too personal. However, we believe that screening our male clients by requiring certain documents is the best way to ascertain who the qualified applicants are and who are not since all transactions are done through the internet.

Fortunately, we have never had any major issues with false identities of our members since we started our matchmaking company in 1999. I think it is because of our unique system where we require male members to visit Japan to meet our female clients for their first meeting. Male members have to spend a lot of time and money for one visit. And usually, one of our staff members attends the meeting. For romance scammers, becoming a member of MJL does not make sense for them since the costs and time involved are too high. 

On the other hand, we require all our female members to visit our Tokyo office before signing up for Full Membership. They come to our office in Tokyo even though they may live as far away as Okinawa or Hokkaido and they have an interview with our staff, and sometimes their conversations last for more than 3 hours! Romance scammers would not make this much effort or take this much risk to visit our office and meet with our staff. Up to this time, we have never had a female applicant romance scammer!

We have heard from some of our male clients of how they were victims of international dating and marriage fraud in other Asian countries when using other dating websites or marriage agencies.

If you google “romance scammer”, you will see examples of these scams. 

One important lesson to keep in mind in order to avoid being scammed is to never send someone money if you have never met them in person. Some people may feel that he or she truly knows or trusts someone after corresponding with him or her through the internet over a long period of time, but you will only really know a person when you actually meet him or her in person.

I hope all people who are looking for their ideal partners are careful for their safety.
MJL only welcomes clients who are looking for sincere love and happy marriage!

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January 12, 2013

Living in a Gun Society

Many of our male members visited our Tokyo office to meet our female members at the end of the year in Dec. to New Year’s Eve. It was our busiest month of all year.


One of our male members talked with Miyata about the gun which he keeps in his house.
He said if he finds a partner, she needs to practice shooting to protect herself.

We all know about the tragic news in the US of the innocent people killed by a person with many guns. Some people say that they need more guns to protect themselves, and other people say that guns need to be controlled.

As you can see, this issue is controversial and it will take time to come to an agreement.

Anyway, as a Japanese native it is hard to imagine that ordinary people in the US can easily own guns. And we have heard from one of our female members who visited her date in the US and he showed her his guns. And she felt scared to live with a man with guns. I would feel the same way.

I am not arguing for or against gun ownership in the US at this time. However, I think that it is necessary for American men to share with their Japanese wives about gun ownership responsibilities and how you feel about guns. Japanese women don’t even know that owning guns is legal in the US.

Perhaps more importantly, all guns in the home should be locked up securely. This is especially important when there are children in the house. Many children die every year from accidental gun shootings.

Your Japanese wife to be should be informed if you have guns, and she should understand your thoughts of having guns. Also wife and husband should talk about possible dangers in daily life and how to protect themselves.



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January 09, 2013

“I am going to marry in 2013!”



あけましておめでとうございます。
Akemashite Omedeto Goazaimasu.

本年もよろしくお願いします。
Honnennmo Yoroshiku Onegaisimasu!!

Happy New Year Everyone!

Have you made a New Year’s Resolution for 2013?

If not, let us suggest a simple sentence for you.
“I am going to marry in 2013!!!”

Words are powerful, and they can give you encouragement.

If you say this sentence out loudly,
“I am going to marry in 2013!!!”
It will happen so.


We wish you a wonderful year in 2013!!!



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http://meetjapanlady.com/

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