Sat Jan 12th 2013 : A Special Members Only Private Event With Luna + Her American Husband

We will have a Special Members Only Private Event in January!

Now is the time to make your New Year's Resolution and take action to create the happy married life you've always dreamed about! Attending this special event is a great way to accelerate your opportunity of meeting a special Japanese woman who will make your life meaningful.

This is a great opportunity to meet with some of our female members and talk in a private setting. Our special guests include Luna and her American husband who are looking forward to sharing about their wonderful life in America, and one of our female members who recently had her wedding ceremony in December will share about her special day. She has just applied for her fiance visa and is getting ready to relocate to her husband's country. Also, Miyata, one of our matchmakers who interviews our female clients in at our Tokyo office, will be available to talk with about your desired match.

There are limited spaces available for this special members only event, so register today if you are serious about improving your life!

Date & Time : Sat Jan 12^th 2013, 1pm-3pm
Place: To be announced soon!
Fee: 2000yen or $25


Who will attend:

Some of our female Full Members
One of our female members who had a wedding ceremony in December 2012.
Matchmaker Miyata who interviews our femle members at our office.

Matchmaker Luna and her American husband (Who is Luna?)

Who can attend:

MJL Trial Members
MJL Full Members

How to attend:
If you would like to attend this special meeting, please follow the instructions below.

1) If you are not a Trial or Full Member, apply here first.
http://www.meetjapanlady.com/form_free/
2) To register for this event, click the following link http://www.meetjapanlady.com/contact.htm

3) Fill out the contact form. Choose “Meeting Event” from the title.

4) Send your name and your Trial/ Full Member number.

5) You will receive the paypal link in order to make a payment for the event fee.

6) You will receive the Event Confirmation after we confirm your payment.

Only a few seats are left, so please take action today!

We look forward to meeting with you on Sat Jan 12^th, 2013!

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IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT: MJL Holiday Schedule

USA Branch Holiday Schedule: Dec 25^th-Jan 6^th

Tokyo Office Holiday Schedule: Normal business hours

Tokyo office is open for our VIP clients who have already scheduled meetings with our female members. Miyata at Tokyo office will be away from the office most of February. If you want to visit our office in Tokyo, please before or after February.

During our holiday schedule, we are happy to accept your emails, however, please keep in mind that we will only be responding to emails after our holiday schedule has ended. If you have an urgent matter, please write “URGENT” in your email’s subject line. We will try our best to respond to any Urgent emails, but cannot guarantee that we will.

During our holiday schedule, we are not accepting any appointments for FREE CONSULTATIONS. We will start accepting FREE CONSULTATION appointments beginning on Jan 6^th 2012.

We wish you Happy Holidays!

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Japanese Women May Test You Especially During the Holidays

One of our friends Paul who is in his early 40’s recently had some friction with his girlfriend.

He didn't invite her to his family’s Thanksgiving dinner although he and she are in an exclusive relationship. So, she spent a lonely and sad thanksgiving without him. She may have thought, “Am I really his girlfriend?”

In his defense, Paul said that his mother told him not to invite his girlfriend to their family Thanksgiving dinner since he took different girlfriends every year, and last Thanksgiving, he took his provocatively dressed Russian girlfriend and Paul's mother didn't approve. Also, he wanted to take this relationship slower and not rush into anything. His girlfriend seemed unhappy after Thanksgiving and him know that she wondered why he did not invite her to his family’s gatherings.

Next, he was wondering if he should invite her to his family’s Christmas dinner. He finally decided not to invite her to his family’s Christmas gathering either since it was out of state and he would be spending over a week there to take part in spiritual gatherings afterwards.

Well, my female opinion is that if he had been dating her for more than three months as his girlfriend, that it would have been preferable for him to invite her and introduce her to his family during the holidays. Since he did not do this, she found out his true feelings. This is the way women or men may ‘test’ the merits of a relationship. The holidays is an especially good time to test how much your partner cares about you if she or he is willing to invite you to his or her family’s gatherings. If you partner does not invite you to his or her family’s holiday gatherings, perhaps it is a sign that he or she does not think much about you and it may be time to end the relationship.

If Paul’s girlfriend is really looking for a man who is sincere for marriage, it would be better to say goodbye to him and start to open a new door. If she really wants to find that special someone and start a family, she doesn’t have much time to wait for his answer. Men need to understand women’s needs more, and if you like her and also would like to start a family, show her how much she means to you by inviting her to your family holiday gatherings. The holidays are a real test of relationships and will let you know how much your partner cares about you. So, the holidays can either bring you closer together or tear your relationship apart.

If your mom is not ready to accept her as your girlfriend, that is fine. The way around this conundrum is to celebrate a special Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner for just you and her, so that she feels special to you and she will be happier than just staying at home alone.

I told my husband about the time I was living in Los Angeles, I had a similar experience as Paul’s girlfriend. At that time, I had a lonely thanksgiving and Christmas even though I believed I had a boyfriend. Afterwards, I realized that my boyfriend did not consider me special enough to invite me to his family’s gatherings, and I ended the relationship with him. It was hard for me, but I think it was the right decision. After that I met my husband and I enjoy the holidays with my family now.

My husband told my story to Paul, and said to him, “Women are checking on you during the holidays!” This a big test of your relationship’s strength.

I hope my friend Paul will be able to celebrate the holidays with his girlfriend this year.

  

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If You Are Too Busy, Make Time for Your Relationship!

If You Are Too Busy, Make Time for Your Relationship!

I received an application for a Free Consultation from one of our female members, and she canceled it and told us to postpone.

I said OK, and we setup the appointment for her again.

Actually, it was the third time that she canceled and postponed the appointment for the Skype consultation.

And every time, she says “I am too busy.”

We would like for her to enjoy her membership to the fullest and to support her efforts of creating a wonderful relationship, however, if she is too busy to make time to even have a consultation with us, how can we possibly help her?

I am really concerned about her situation and want to help her. The question for her is how can she make time for a relationship with one of our male members? And, how will she change her busy lifestyle in order to create the time and space in her life that is necessary for a relationship and eventual marriage?

Obviously, marriage is not a simple process; it is one’s lifelong journey of creating a harmonious and fulfilling relationship which you and your partner work together. And, in a marriage you and your partner will encounter relationship issues good and bad perhaps everyday. Therefore, one must allow for the time and space in one life to be married and be fully committed to one’s partner. To have a successful relationship in a marriage, one must place the marriage at the top of one’s priority list in life. Nothing else, including work and friends, may come before one’s relationship. If it does and continues to do so, the marriage will eventually suffer and die.

If you or your partner say excuses like, “I am too busy” at every moment, and the important events between you and your partner is postponed very often, one will become more distant from one’s partner and it will be very hard to keep a strong relationship.

It is with a heavy heart that we informed her, “We are so sorry, but let's make an appointment when you are truly ready to have a relationship and marriage. Good luck on your business.”

By the way, she is a doctor who is over fifty years old and single never married. I understand it is hard to make time to think about her own happiness since she is contributing to her patients everyday.(Her profile was already removed from our member page.)

WHAT I AM GOING TO SAY NEXT IS VERY IMPORTANT!!! I really believe women and men should place a higher priority on love and marriage than on a successful career. I have seen many women who are totally focused on their career, have become very successful, and are in their late 40's or over 50's. And they come to our office and knock on the door and say, “I want to find a happy marriage, and I need your help!” I do not think it is too late, but each passing day makes it more difficult for them to find their ideal partner since most men want to meet younger women.

Think of it this way. When you are dying on your death bed, would you rather look back on life and be thankful for a successful career or would you be thankful for being in a wonderful, loving relationship with your husband or wife???!!! Life is really that simple! Whatever, we put most of our efforts into each and every day is what we become and what our lives become. So, if I spend most of my day working and thinking about my career, my life becomes a working life devoted to my job. If I spend most of my day with my partner or thinking about and totally committed to my partner, my life becomes rich with love and fulfillment with my partner that will last a lifetime. A job can end tomorrow for any reason. A devoted relationship will enrich one’s life much more than any job. However, a relationship takes daily attention or it will wilt and die like a neglected, thirsty flower forgotten by its owner.

So, I tell all my members, “Stop what you are doing right now. Take a deep breath and exhale. Say out loud that you are making a complete commitment to finding your life’s partner in this instant and nothing will change this commitment to yourself. Write this commitment in large letters on a piece of paper and attach it to your bedroom wall where you will wake up and see it every morning and before going to bed at night. Say, “I want a wonderful, loving relationship and marriage now!” out loud and to yourself many times a day. By placing this commitment to creating a fabulous relationship at the top of your to do list, you will be creating affirmative action that will make it happen. That is the secret to life!”

If you don’t act now, life will simply pass you by!!!
 

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