As we announced on our blog in May, we had a SPEED DATING (or more appropriately called Speed Introduction) event in Los Angeles, California on Saturday, June 26th 2010. It was a smashing success!!! Twelve men (four were from SF and one was from Las Vegas) and twelve women (two were from JAPAN) participated. This was our biggest event ever!
Our event was held in a beautiful Japanese named, green certified hotel banquet room, the weather was sunny and, I received much positive feedback from our participants.
Some people asked me what is a SPEED DATING event. A SPEED DATING event is an event that allows the participants to meet many prospective people who are also interested in dating, in a short amount of time. At our event, each participant met twelve people of the opposite sex in a six minute mini date. Every six minutes, men switched to the next seat. The end result was that each participant met twelve prospective dates in a short amount of time (a few hours). After that, we had mingling time, so everyone could talk freely.
I think everyone has more satisfaction with this style of event than compared with taking part in a general party event. The reasons are as follows.
1. Since our female members are all serious minded, their purpose of participating in the event is clear. They are looking for a future husband.
2. If it is a general party event, Japanese women are too shy to talk.
3. If it is a general party, both men/women tend to want to talk with the popular people who are young looking and handsome/beautiful. Unfortunately, people tend not to talk to the average looking people or see people's personalities in a party setting.
4. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you can see our female profiles before the event takes place, and learn about the women who will be attending beforehand.
5. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you still have the opportunities to meet with people with whom you don't think you make a good match. This is healthy for everyone to meet many different types of people and allows for surprises. Who knows, you might meet a good match with someone who you were not interested based solely upon their profile.
6. If it is a MJL SPEED DATING event, you do not have to feel any pressure or embarrassment about asking for a person's contact info, since MJL handles this for you. We have a convenient form for you to fill out where you list the people you would like to meet again, and MJL handles the introductions after the event.
It was our first experience with a speed dating event. We learned a lot, and we appreciate that our participants gave us wonderful feedback. We will improve and plan our next SPEED DATING or other events in TOKYO and NY.
I hope a lot of gentlemen who are looking for a Japanese wife will join our next MJL EVENT!
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We get many different kinds of questions about our female members from visitors to our website. Today we want to answer one of the questions we have received.
The question is;
”Are you sure that there's no female member in Meet Japan Lady .com who tries to get married just for a green card?”
There are some visitors who are worried that they cannot tell if an Asian woman's purpose to meet American men through the Internet is just to get a green card.
Our answer is;
"Yes, we are sure that there's no such woman like this amongst our members."
This question suggests that those who ask this kind of question still don't know much about Japanese women. Japanese women are often placed in the same group with other Asian women such as Chinese, Filipino, Thai and others. However, unlike many other Asian countries, Japan is a very stable country both economically and politically, so there is hardly any reason for Japanese women to flee from Japan.
We encourage our male members to learn more about Japan and Japanese women before they think about finding a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner.
The reason why some Asian women (not from Japan) will try to get married for a green card is because their economical or political status is so bad that they will do almost anything in order to get out of their own countries. All of our female members are very serious about their marriage and we are sure that none of our female members want to get married just to get a green card. We personally conduct thorough interviews of every prospective female member in order to confirm that they are serious about marriage. Only women who meet our stringent qualifications will become our members.
Our female members already have established their own successful careers in Japan. Finding a future spouse outside Japan means that they might risk losing their career. Still they are ready to take a risk in leaving their home country, since their priority is to find their special lifelong partner and start a family of their own.
Our Japanese ladies are seeking their lifelong partner outside Japan not because they want to escape from Japan but because they believe that their best match is somewhere outside Japan. Many of our female members appreciate the Western men's sense of equality and the more balanced Western lifestyle often lacking in workaholic Japan .
Getting a green card is NOT our female members’ reason for leaving Japan. They are simply looking for their true love. Maybe it's you whom they are looking for!
Meet Japan Lady.com
Personalized Marriage Introduction Service for Professional American Men
http://meetjapanlady.com/
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Singles Meetup in Los Angeles
SIngles Meetup in Tokyo
