Ideal Future Spouse

My ideals for future husband are not too high.
It might be strange but he should feel comfortable enough to break wind in front of me, and he should accept me to break wind in front of him. As he should be the closest person in the world,
I should feel natural and safe and comfortable with him any time.
He should be passionate about me.
He should protect me at all times.

Usually, when a man member chooses a lady, he takes a look at her picture.
Of course, everyone has some standards for how the partner should look.
Since we interview each lady, I know many good ladies who have good personalities but they don't correspond with any man. Unfortunately, the profile pictures can not express her personality at all. So, men are more likely to choose the lady who is photogenic. That's certainly the case with women's side, also..

We have a proverb in Japan, that says "You will be getting bored with a beautiful wife in three days but you will be getting used to an ugly wife in three days."

Our ladies members are all charming, so please start to talking with them more, and try exploring to find their attractiveness and inner beauty.

F~ckn' Something

My English teacher always says "watch American TV andmovies." To learn the second language, you shouldexperience the real daily conversations in life. Sorecently, I tried watching DVD's instead of studyingwith boring text books. I learned the words like"F~ckn' something!" a lot in the movies I watched. Why do they say "F~ck' something!, F~cking something,F~ckin' something"??? As I listen to this word veryoften, I can guess that this phrase means somethingdirty. What I can not understand is how dirty or inwhat situation they are able it say and in whatsituation they must not. Likewise, I have alreadylearned words and phrases, but the importance is toknow how to use in daily life in the correctsituations. I have a Japanese friend, living inAmerica, whose family name is GOFUKU. This is anordinary Japanese name, but he usually hides hisfamily name and uses "David" in America. His daughterused to be teased when she was in school because ofthe family name. I told another American friend aboutthis then he says that he has a Japanese friend whosefamily name is MIFUKU. Incidentally, "FUKU" means"The Clothes" in Japanese, and GOFUKU means KIMONO. MIFUKU is a special KIMONO dress for royalty

BANZAI

Today, I went to my friend's sandwich shop to put upan advertisement for Kaiwa-USA. The owner of "What'sA SUB" is a Japanese American from Hawaii, and hiswife is Japanese. They look very happy running theirfamily business together.

I heard there are manyJapanese American gentlemen in Hawaii, and for them,it is pleasant to have a Japanese wife, and also,their parents are glad if their son has a Japanesewife. They say like "My son married to A REALJAPANESE!" (What is A REAL JAPANESE?)

I rememberedwhen I went to Hawaii to participate in our member'swedding ceremony last March, most of the guests wereJapanese American and Japanese from Japan. At theceremony, I was surprised that they looked Japanesebut they spoke English. I was also surprised that theysaid "BANZAI!" when they toasted. I heard that it wasa tradition in Japanese American in Hawaii's style ofcelebration. It was fun to say "BANZAI" at the weddingparty. I said "BANZAI! BANZAI! BANZAI!"

We don't usethe word "BANZAI" very often in these days, but it isone of the good words in Japanese. Written in Chinesecharacter, BANZAI means ten thousand years old. At the wedding ceremony, everybody hopes for long life and happiness.